Is he truly respectful of women and honoring to his future wife, or is he constantly trying to win the affection of girls? Take some time to quietly observe his behavior (over more than just a day or two!) and allow God’s Spirit to open your eyes to his true nature. Thirdly, recruit some “teammates” who can observe him along with you. Often the best teammates are parents or Godly older adults you respect, rather than friends your own age who might just tell you what you want to hear. Your parents (if they are walking with Christ) have been given a special position in your life by God, and often they have special insight into important decisions such as this one. If you are willing to humble yourself and submit to their wisdom, God can work through them to give you caution or assurance as you decide whether to move forward in a relationship. My parents played an incredibly important role in my love story with Eric. When our friendship seemed ready to move into a romantic relationship, their insight and wisdom proved to be an invaluable tool that God used in order to give me peace about moving forward. Even if you are an adult and living completely independent of your parents, they can still serve as prayer partners and Godly counselors for this crucial area of your life. If you are willing to humble yourself enough to listen to their perspective, you will be surprised at how beneficial it can be. Even if you are mocked, ridiculed, or ignored because you refuse to throw your heart to any guy out there, you can be sure that God will honor your decision. He paid for the treasure of your heart with His own blood. You disregard His amazing sacrifice for you when you allow your femininity to be trampled in the mud. You are a daughter of the King, so hold out for a man who truly reflects the King’s nature, love and light. Story by Lesley Ludy. #lovestory #onchristthesolidrockistand #beforeyousayido #godfirst #everysingle #createyourwedding