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Making Love = Being Loving: anything and everything that you put your heart into, including intercourse, a hand shake, kissing, a love letter, a peace offering, S/M, art, music, masturbation, fetishes, fantasies, a phone call, a warm embrace, whatever pleases you, whatever feels good, the sky is the limit. I dare you to count the ways you can single-handedly make love to the planet or yourself or your best friend or your new lover.
Wendy-O Matik, Redefining Our Relationships
On Dealing With Haters
First and foremost, don’t be the hater. Don’t be the person who tears down someone else’s hard work. The world needs more people who contribute their gifts and share their work and ideas. Working up the courage to do that can be tough. Support the people who display that courage.
If you’re dealing with criticism, then don’t let the wall keep you from seeing the road. Focus on the path ahead. Another way I heard it put recently, “Ignore the boos. They usually come from the cheap seats.”
If you choose to respond to the haters, then surprise them with kindness. You might just win a new fan while you’re at it.
Finally, and most importantly, make the choices that are right for you. People will criticize you either way.
(Source: James Clear)
Being loving as you love.
"It’s whether you choose to be understood or you choose to be loving." -my friend Niffy advised.
Haaay… ang gulo ng utak ko lately. I dunno what to do in my life. I actually know but I just don’t know where to start. Kaya ayan, parang nagsa-suffer na din ang mga mahal ko dahil sa gulo ng utak ko. Hindi na kami magkaintindihan ng mom ko at naririndi na ung bf ko sa kakareklamo ko at sya na lang lagi napapagbuntunan ng inis ko.
Ngaun alam ko na gagawin ko, gusto ko ayusin sarili ko. And be “more” loving. Hindi ko na nga ata kasi alam ang tunay na ibig sabihin ng pagmamahal. Parang lagi na lang ako nanghihingi ng pansin at naghahanap ng kulang kahit meron namang naibibigay. Mali! tsk.
Sabi nga ni Mama Jas, “just love the people you love, wala kang ibang gagawin kundi mahalin lang sila.”
And this time I know I should learn how to be more loving when loving the people I love.
And a Twilight quote courtesy of Michico: “I’m not going anywhere. I’ll be right here as long as you need me.” Edward Cullen, Twilight, Chapter 24, p.471
Then I realized may version pala nito ang pasensyosong bf ko: “Hindi naman ako mawawala eh. Dito lang naman ako, angel" –Nald, Real life in Ryssa’s drama, January 28, 2009, 11:17 am
Yah, I have my own Edward Cullen… my own version of an absolute boyfriend… and my own principles of what a perfect partner should be.
I am thankful God gave me my answered prayer, though sablay nga lang sya minsan. Well, ok lang kasi ako din naman may sablay. Yun lang, hindi kasi sya mareklamo tulad ko. Napapabayaan ko na nga ang regalong binigay sa kin ni Lord. Kaya minsan nagiging masungit tuloy sya sa kin. Kasi naman MADALAS akong masungit. Bugnutin. Mabuti na lang at mabuti syang tao. He wants me to be a better person, too.
Nami-miss ko tuloy ung first month namin. When we were sooooo in love and I was sooooo inspired. Haaay…
And I want to remember the feeling I had that time…
I want to feel the way I did the very first moment I called him… mine.
HAPPY 5TH MONTH, angel ko…and to my mommy dearest, sorry po sa argument natin last week.
(haay… naiiyak tuloy ako) -jan.31 7:10 am
