#being valued

[poetrybyonur]

Be grateful to the wrong friends who taught you how to value the right ones.

[solstice-veil-poet82]

“A woman would rather be valued for the depth of her soul than merely desired for the shape of her body—because to be wanted is fleeting, but to be cherished is eternal.”

[quietflorilegium]

“You see,” she says slowly, “I was always desired. But now I am valued. And that is a different thing, I find.”

Anne Boleyn, Hilary Mantel, “Wolf Hall”

[ventilateyourself]

[poetrybyonur]

I’m not an option. If you feel you need to choose between me and someone else, then I’ll make it easy for you and walk away.

[growthgrindtv]

“She Sees You More Than You Know”

There’s something powerful about being truly appreciated—not for grand gestures, but for the everyday ways you show up. For the comfort you bring, the steadiness you offer, and the quiet reassurance of knowing someone is there.

You might not always realize how much you mean to her, but your presence shapes her world. You bring light into her days. You make space for her laughter, her softness, her vulnerability. With you, she feels understood and valued—not questioned or overlooked.

Love like this isn’t loud or demanding. It’s steady. It’s patient. It shows itself in trust, in emotional safety, and in the simple fact that she can be herself with you.

She admires your strength—not just the visible kind, but the strength it takes to care, to stay consistent, to love without conditions. You’re not just someone she loves—you’re someone she feels safe leaning on. Someone who brings calm into chaos.

Gratitude lives quietly but deeply in her heart. Not because you complete her, but because you walk beside her. Because with you, love feels grounding instead of overwhelming.

If you’ve ever wondered whether the way you love matters—this is your reminder. It does. More than you know.

[sparkfly14]

Hiya, how's your Monday?

Alright, so this one is about my work.

It's not a rant, it's not about something bad, don't worry.

So, this academic year, I supposed to be assisting a new teacher in Year 3 class. I've met him and was so looking forward to work with him this year.

But for some reasons, on the last day before summer break they moved me to be one-on-one assisstant for a spotlight kid in Year 4 which most of the students in that class are my former students last year in Year 3, so we know each others very well.

I hope you get it to this point..

And then today, this new teacher came and taught in my class.

During the task time he came to me and asked me how am I doing with the new role, and I said it's not that easy and he told me that I'm better off working with him instead.

And one of my students overheard our conv and she said "Don't steal Miss Audrey, she's our ALT (Assistant Learning and Teaching)," and he said "But I want her too!."

And remembering that long before I was offered to be the one-on-one ALT, I also applied for a Drama ALT but they kinda put me in the waiting list. But then few days back I heard the Drama teacher wants me in his team..

It was absolutely a great decision that I moved.

I feel so much valued in my new school.

This quote is true; "Don't stay where your presence is not appreciated"

This gives me thrills!