So I’m an ace girl, who’s trying to figure out if I’m bi too. I think I had crushes on a few girls when I was younger, and maybe also later on (but since I assumed love=sexual attraction, I assumed it wasn’t romantic). Imagining myself marrying a girl feels a bit strange but not bad. But I’m worried I’m somehow faking it? Or confusing attractions. Like I should have known I was romantically attracted to those girls? And these last years I’ve only been attracted to guys (maybe one girl recently).
Hi,
I can understand how it’s confusing but don’t worry!
You’re not faking it just because you don’t have frequent attraction to females. Being bi isn’t being equally attracted to both genders, you can have a preference for males or females, it doesn’t matter you’re still bi.
Even if you’ve only had a crush on one girl recently and 100 crushes on guys you’re still 100% valid as identifying as biromantic.
- Lola
















