I went out with someone I know through my real life online identity, through my professional/personal persona. After an evening of beer, food, two different pubs and conversation, we both discover that she also knows my fannish online identity. And has read my one major story in this fandom.
At one time that would have been a very threatening experience, but now it's just extremely strange. What do you say? I'm sorry? I don't even know.
She promised she wouldn't stalk me. That's kind of her. I wasn't terribly worried.
I don't even know if she liked that story. She might have hated it. I have no idea. She didn't say. I didn't feel at all tempted to ask, I mean, this was face to face. I don't want to get con crit from a relative stranger in person, after all. What is there to say?