okay okay okay, we need to talk. tumblr as of the last month has been hell. it seems that once a week a creator is being attacked for something. seeing this had made me think of some things and i would like to share.
1. !size kinks! i have recently watched a blog get attacked and hated on for talking about size kinks. i just want to say this, size kinks aren’t body shaming. i understand that some people may not be into size kinks and that’s okay! however some people are, and taking that away seems unfair. going forward i am going to tag anything that has to do with size kinks as #size kink. if size kinks are something you do not like/are not into please block the tag. if you need help finding how to do so please send an ask or google it (what i had to!)
2. !smut about matthew! i am deciding to no longer write smutty blurbs or answer smutty asks about him. i will still reblog smut fics from time to time but i’m not answering anymore SMUT asks. you can still send fluffy asks. i will be tagging all of my matthew smut reblogs as #mggsmutreblog you can block that if you would like. i will still continue to take smut asks on spencer and his other characters as well as emily prentiss and elle greenway!
3. !toxicity of people on here! it’s been toxic in this fandom for awhile and when i say y’all are driving some creators away i mean it. STOP BEING ENTITLED! ask. that’s it. ask. if you don’t like a certain kink, ask for the creator to tag it so you can block it. that being said, i mean kinks not things that are wrong such as r*pe, body shaming, or racism. those are things that are WRONG and should be pointed out and the people should be held accountable! when i say kinks i mean things like daddy kinks, size kinks, pet play kinks, bdsm type stuff, etc.
to wrap things up, i want to say this first and foremost: i want everyone to feel loved and accepted here. i want people to know that they are beautiful as they are and that’s what matters. i love each and everyone one of you that follow me and if you don’t follow me and see me in tags, i love you too. this blog is a safe space and it will remain as such. i will update my pinned post with my new tags and stuff! i love y’all very much!
(i am going to tag this just so people who interact with me from tags hopefully see this and know!)