Age regression isn’t nsfw! That’s ddlg!
𝐒𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐞𝐜𝐡𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐨𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭!
Age Regression: is a coping mechanism for many different things and people use it for many different reasons! I place myself in a headspace between 3－6 because that’s the ages a lot of shit happened to me. Age Regression is not sexualised and is not a kink for people to “get off too“ it’s a safe place for people to deal with their mental health, self esteem, trauma, stress etc. There are 2 roles, first you have the caregiver which is someone who you can call “daddy” if you please but they themselves are known as caregivers, they help you with get comfy, feeling safe/protected, they make you food, play dolls with you, put your fav cartoons on and just hold you sometimes … the other role is the Age Regressor who places themselves into a safe headspace to deal with all the things I’ve mentioned above and they do this to get away from it… to heal!
Now DDLG is a kink! It ties in with age play and all that jazz, it’s where someone older acts as a daddy/mommy and the other partner acts as a little girl/boy … however it is very sexualised! Daddy Dom / Little Girl is what that stands for and the Dom part is very important! Now I do not link DDLG with pedophilia often but there is a big side to that community that does use DDLG to groom underage girls for that type of stuff… it happened to me BUT there were a lot of lovely people in the DDLG community that are very nice, understanding and ready to help/communicate with you about everything there is to know In not a perverted way… (do your research and please be careful)
Now I actually went through DDLG first at the age of 13 (not a safe age to do that btw) but I didn’t fully understand…I just liked pretending to be a kid again and eventually after a lot of research and having sketchy men on the internet be my “daddy” I finally realised what Age Regression was and that there was a major difference.
Now…
For my sexualisation of my Age Regression… because yes it is still Age Regression!
I need to point out that I will and have NEVER sexualised other peoples Age Regression! (Just my own)
All that trauma that happened to me between the ages of 3-6 were sexual… not something i wanna dive into fully on here but it wasn’t great and all the nightmares that came with it weren’t either…
I don’t tend to sexualise my Age Regression often but when I do, I do it to cope! It gives me control over something that I had no knowledge/understanding in… it gives me power because even tho I know I’ve Age Regressed to a smaller age… I’m still there in my head, I’m still there in my body and it places a new wave of comfort and almost a new image instead of the bad ones.
I have no idea if any of this made sense to you… because again Age Regression isn’t connected to sexualisation at all but leave me to my own devices and my trauma… I will cope the way I do! I’m not harming anyone or any community <3
Thank you for letting me explain my side! Have a good day 🐇
