For the dommes: do not for a moment let yourself think that a man has progressive values just because he is submissive.
You will find yourself pouring a lot of effort and time into building a dynamic with someone just for you to find out that he has repulsive views about women. For me, it was finding out about his racist views about the Roma ( as he is from Eastern Europe) and his lack of respect and basic human decency for women that he is not attracted to. That was enough for me to lose attraction and interest in him so quickly.
Anyways, this was just something I learned about myself as a baby domme. It is painful rn but I know I will move on from this and grow. Hopefully it can help someone else too.














