#c.arson

[fckhyland]

[text] Hahah coincidence? [text] Uhm.. his character did.. don't think they actually dated. Nooooo lol I didn't. He's just been a super good friends for years.

text with wit: The universe is funny sometimes.

text with wit: Oh okay I’ve never seen it but I guess I should probs get to binge-ing...? Got it got it. Well you can give him my number, if you want. Or you can give me his and I can text him. I’ll make the first move I don’t give a shit hahaha

[fckhyland]

[text] He said he's not sure if he can handle another small and feisty girl like my but he sounded up for it. His name is Jesse Soffer.

text with wit: Oh my god Jesse. I literally just wished him happy birthday on twitter. Awk. Didn’t he date Sophia? Wait. You dated him too? When!?

[fckhyland]

[text] Great.. yup. Long distance sucks. And Alex even lives in a different country during most of the year. I was really happy when hockey season was over and he could come out to LA to stay with me. Another thing that stops us from having kids, just saying :P [text] Hmm yeah exactly. I mean I would never. Of course i will always love Jordan but there's nothing romantic there anymore. Like I'm completely over him. Cami and I are super good friends now which is super nice. She is amazing!

text with wit: Long distance suuuucks, my dude. Another country is another level of shitty that I hope to never deal with. You mean you don’t want to have kids with their father in a different country? Say it ain’t so 😂

text with wit: That’s sweet. I’m just saying. Sometimes feelings come outta nowhere so keeping some space can be a good safety precaution, especially if you’re both in new relationships with good people. Just be careful like I know you are.

[fckhyland]

[text] How is it you and him aren't a thing yet? Cause clearly he at least likes you too. And clearly you get along. [text] Yeah he'll always hold a special place in my heart. And he'll be one of my best friends forever I think. We used to talk a lot more than we do now which I would like to be different but I'm also sort of worried it will be weird. Like not between us but to Alex and Cami. I think just society's thing of ex's can't be friends thing weighing on me.

text with wit: Ehh he’s based in Nashville. I did the whole dating-a-guy-that-lives-out-of-state thing and it was too hard. I’ve told him if he ever makes LA home that I’m taking him out so...just another thing to add to the ‘see what happens’ list.

text with wit: That’s so sweet. Well, speaking as someone who is it contact with exactly zero (0) of her exes, I say keeping some distance is key. I mean it’s partially society but there’s also needing to respect the people you’re with now. And keeping that distance just ensures that no one slips into old habits or even has the opportunity to do something they might regret. I doubt you and Jordan would do that because you’re both too smart to pull that bullshit like I did but it’s just no smart to stay super close to exes, imo. That said, whatever works for you guys, do you and fuck society.

[fckhyland]

[text] I mean Wells is a cutie so i get that. Alright. I can't think of anyone else to set you up with. Artem maybe but I don't think he's in the mood. Not sure if he's still hung up on Torrey or what. [text] Thanks. I mean we tried. We just didn't communicate how we felt, we didn't support each other we weren't there for the other. It was tough but it's all better now and we're with new people. I'm sorry you and Jamie had to go down this road. You seemed like a good match.

text with wit: He’s everything. We talk on insta all the time. He slides into my DMs and we talk about tacos. He’s the greatest. Nah, it’s okay. Don’t stress. Like I said, what happens, happens. I’m just chillin.

text with wit: Hey, been there, done that. No matter how secure you feel in that relationship, true shit comes out and people change when you’re staring down that particular barrel. I hope to never experience that again. Aw thanks Wit. We had our moments of greatness, for sure. And he’ll always be special to me, just like I’m sure Jordan will always be special to you.

[fckhyland]

[text] Hahah well we're happy to surprise you. [text] Not looking right now? Still crushing on Wells? [text] Yeah see we were like 5ish months in but we had a break in between. so it could've been 6. It just wasn't a strong enough relationship yet. It sucks but I'm just glad we got to go back to being friends.

text with wit: And a surprise it t’was, indeed.

text with wit: Forever crushing on Wells. No, look, I’m dating, I’m meeting people. I’m more than happy to meeting your fake cop friend. I’m just not putting pressure on anything. If/when it happens, it happens. I’m done trying to steer shit in the direction I want it to go, y’know?

text with wit: Yeah from what I hear, you and Jordan handled it pretty well, all things considered. Jamie and I...not so much. We chose a much more destructive path, let’s say. And that included breaking up, getting back together, breaking up again blah blah blah. AND you and Jordan were younger than Jamie and I were so kudos to you for being wise beyond your years.

[fckhyland]

[text] Haha was it really? Karlie totally saw it coming even if we didn't. I was laughing so hard. Your reaction was the best thing ever. [text] Yeah! You'll find your prince charming one day. [text] Yeah I agree. I mean there may be worse. There's been a few hockey couples that had to go through even worse and I can't even imagine. How long had you and Jamie been dating at that point? I think for Jo and I it may have been that it was so early still in the relationship.

text with wit: Oh I knew it was coming like y’all were the only ones in denial but I was shocked in the moment because I didn’t expect it right then hahaha glad to entertain.

text with wit: Yeah, hopefully when I actually start looking lol

text with wit: Jamie and I had only been together about four months before I got pregnant so maybe it was sort of the same thing. Just too early on. That foundation wasn’t strong enough to withstand it.

[fckhyland]

[text] I know! You were sooo excited! I was laughing so hard. It was on your birthday. You didn’t crack your phone by throwing it across the room did you? [text] Yeah well then it’s all good I would assume. [text] I mean neither one of us cheated and we still weren’t able to come back from it so.. a miscarriage is tough.

text with wit: It was a shock, my dude. I didn’t! Close, but no.

text with wit: Here’s hoping.

text with wit: A miscarriage is one of--if not the hardest--thing that life has to throw at us. I applaud any and all couples that can make it through to the other side as a unit.