hi there! i don't have anyone to reccomend, mostly because i just blacklist stuff i don't like, but i digress. I follow the-stonedsoldier, and I haven't been actively following the discussion, but I know what's been happening, and I think you should delete the posts. I understand that it's against your principles to delete posts, but as someone with anxiety, I can totally understand where she's coming from. as you have proved that she's not a hater, the asks concerning her (1/2)
(2/2) are completely useless. It's not like she's deleting all of her anti-stony posts or anything and asking you to pretend like she was never a terrible person, she's asking you to delete posts about her because the fact that there are posts about her on a blog that lots of people look at and it's stressing her out. Honestly, continuing to refuse to delete the posts just because you don't want to is making you look like a total dick.
See, you started off politely, but ended with “you look like a total dick,” so... mixed messages?
Again: the asks clarify the purpose of this blog. They clearly state “this person doesn’t tag hate, and therefore they don’t belong on the list.” That’s why they’re there.
I must say: I’m not the one who’s dragging this out. If she doesn’t like people talking about her, it seems like it’d be in everyone’s best interests to just... drop this subject. I may just stop responding to these asks if they keep coming in, because it’s not doing anyone any good.