#casdreams

[onamelancholyhill]

It's perfectly possible to say you're proud of someone without elevating yourself above them. This is why friends can be proud of each other... or why one member of a team can be proud of the rest of the group after achieving something difficult. I think your anon may be carrying a bit of baggage when it comes to other people's approval, adding negative connotations to positive statements like that.

First of all, thanks for the support, you’re awesome (the ones answering the other message are awesome too and I’m proud of you…. haha kidding).

About the topic, exactly!!

I don’t even think about ME when I say I’m proud of someone else haha. But well, some people have different priorities in life and are that focused in themselves that they think about themselves when they shouldn’t ahhaha.

[nerdydean]

July 19. I'll be turning such wow many old :((

message me your birthday and i’ll add you to my birthday page

[loyalmeg]

Huge congratulations on honor roll, you brilliant bonbon you..!

Thanks!!! ahhhh you’re so sweet :3

[seraphjimin]

DESTIELDAMNIT SAID: I’M 3000% DONE WITH FEELING GUILTY FOR NOT ACTUALLY BLOGGING ABOUT PERSONAL THINGS ON MY PERSONAL BLOG JUST BECAUSE I’M IN A FANDOM. SOMETIMES I JUST FEEL LIKE TALKING TO THIS WEIRD WALL OF CRAP AND DAMN IT, I’M GOING TO IF I SO CHOOSE. AS SHOULD YOU

CASDREAMS SAID: I KEEP GAINING AND LOSING THE SAME NUMBER OF FOLLOWERS, BUT EH. I DON’T BLINK AT IT AS LONG AS IT’S NOT SOMEONE I’VE GOTTEN TO KNOW!

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. I mean, hey, if I bug the shit outta you, I respect your choice to unfollow... but yeah.. maybe it's due to my advanced age (._.) but I didn't grow up with this sort of thing....this hair-trigger response...

But, c'est la vie.. I get that this is your personal time and you are free to make it cater to your exact tastes.   *shrugs*

AND,  I think we can all agree it's the better choice than bullying me with hate mail. 

But yes, I have a hard time not getting caught up in the instant self-hatred/guilt that comes with that stupid number going down.  Just keep doing what you're doing darling!!  I will too!   I find it therapeutic to just type out the thoughts and emotions.  If we all REALLY wanted to be faceless nobodies, we wouldn't be here. 

So, in cone-clusion:  I GET IT.  I DON'T CARE.  BUT I STILL KINDA DO. 

*hugs*

[leiaoragana]

casdreams replied to your post “queenbela --> corncain”

No IT NEEDS TO BE FOREVER.

maybe IT WILL 

[puppett-queen]

My sympathies!. If it helps, just remember you did the right thing, and if you gave your cat a good life then you did all he could have asked for.

i keep telling myself that. he was a very happy boy and he knew how much he was loved and he was surrounded by my family and i up until his very last moments. i miss him so much though. but thank you

[seraphjimin]

ahh so many cuties writing me that I no get food yet.  I go now.

*GROUP HUGS*

[onamelancholyhill]

Wow, so lets talk about people who have nothing better to do than waste their time sending cowardly insults to people online. If you want to spew hate, at least have the cojones to own it. You on the other hand are lovely, my dear, and you handle yourself so well in the face of such silliness!

Thank you darling ♥

And as you’ve said… no aggressive asker will show their face. Ever. So we cannot give them more importance than they deserve.