#cbl's asks

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Please explain the death blender

yeah tbf this does need context

original post here: https://discontentramblings.tumblr.com/post/188008105719/the-mario-kart-game-mode-nintendo-wont-tell-you

basically it's a '''game mode''' in mario kart 9 deluxe involving baby park and items set to 'bob-ombs only'

very chaotic, very fun, i highly recommend it

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Have an AWESOME day and have 8 HOURS of sleep tonight!

it's already 7:30pm but still 🫡 thank you kind anon

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have an ALRIGHT day and have 6.5 HOURS of sleep tonight

well this one is more realistic i suppose

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Oh shit a fellow bi-ace!! :D

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hi. this is not related to anything u, but..uh.

how's it being 30? are all ur dreams fulfilled or. are u ok?

(sorry if it sounds insensitive. wanted u to know what came across my tiny mind when i saw ur chaotic blog)

honestly? it's pretty great

I've settled into a career path, I know myself pretty well and everything is just generally more stable

I can do things like spend £50 on a jack skellington statue and go on fun holidays with friends and figure what being a person means on my own terms

Stuff can still be hard sometimes but I'll take my current problems over the ones I had when I was 20

(also yeah, my blog is basically a dragon hoard and not really catered to anyone besides me - I like a lot of stuff and that just happens to be mostly bg3 at the moment)

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Mmmmmmmm. Gorilla song sounds good.

all rise for the national anthem

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When I saw your post 10 years ago, i think it was one of the first times I'd ever seen the terms "asexual" and "pansexual". This year, the international corporation that I work at put out a glossary of terms for employees during Pride month so people could educate themselves more on the LGBTQIA+ community and both "asexual" and "pansexual" were included. Thank you for being so ahead of the times and for educating me through your humour back then :)

aw shucks 😊

honestly my post was based on an earlier post along the lines of 'how are asexuality and pansexuality that hard to understand, it's just all or nothing' (i think sarah z covers that in her video)

the educational aspect was unintentional but looking through the notes, this post does seems to be some people's first experiences of the terms, so glad i can help in a roundabout way!

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Thank you for creating All or Nothing. From one anxious 30 yo bi-ace to another. It resonated with me so much. It made me feel so seen. I think about your post every day because I came out to myself as asexual in 2014, and in 2015 I started dating my now-wife, who is pansexual. We often joke about how we are real-life All or Nothing lol And that’s the beautiful thing about your little post. It is a small joke but it reflects the real lives of myself and I’m sure so many other people. You didn’t change our lives, but you are a part of our lives every day.

this...is adorable 😭 shout out to the irl all-or-nothing duos out there, hope you're all having a great day 💖💖💖