Recently, I’ve read if your life is falling apart it’s to make room for new beginnings. Of course, there is all the positive bullshit “Chin up, tough times don’t last” or my favorite “You have to fall apart in order to come together” My question is WHY? Why must we feel pain before we can feel good? I realize a lot of us, myself included would sit idle if not forced to feel uncomfortable. Why must it be so gut wrenching? Then again ---- maybe its human nature to stay where it’s uncomfortable because it is easier than venturing into the unknown. Maybe the only way to change is to walk through the pain ....











