Hi, my mama just died and I think she still lingers around the house. Do you know of any rituals or spells to help her move on? I don't want her to be stuck or suffering here. I'm sorry if I'm bothering you with my question.
Well, a simple way is to do a cleansing either in the entire house from back to front, or in the room you feel like she still lingers. You honestly don’t need actual materials for this but if you want you can get a white candles and something to burn and cleanse with like mint, palo santo, peppermint, or pine.
Open all windows and/or doors.
You can either pass the herb through the house before and after the ritual or during, its up to you.
Light the candle(s) and sit comfortably in the space that you think she still lingers and concentrate on it.
Once you feel like you’re in the state you need to be in, and you’ve got a hold of the energy, start talking to her.
Remember who you’re talking to, be respectful! Talk to her like how you would if she was right in front of you.
Let her know that it is ok for for her to move on. That she has loved ones on the other side that are waiting for her, and that you are ok with her leaving. Saying any last minute words is good idea to say here.
Imagine a path going toward a white light and imagine them walking through. Remember though, you imaging this is not them literally going through, this is just an aid to help them move on.
Let the candle burn all the way down if you have any. This is also a good time to pass any remaining burning herbs through the house or area. A good time to do this is when the sun is up, since the sun = the light. (Also a good day would be Sunday)
Leave the doors or windows open long enough for the the remaining of her spirit to pass through.
Im so sorry to hear about your passing, but hopefully this will help both you and her.
