It is lili's and Cole's choice to be private. You are of course, allowed to discuss about it and support them, but harassing them for their relationships to be public and shown to viewers is just straight up wrong. The kaia Gerber rumours were very destructive and wrong, so please, keep your nose out of their business. Of course have chats about their private relationship, support them nicely. Just don't harass them. That's it. It is so easy. No one's asking you to stop discussing about their relationship - it is beautiful and gorgeous. Please D O N O T harass them though, and leak all of their personal and private relationship stuff or addresses . That is abuse and this is 2020. We dont do that any fucking more. They are both very talented and nice so stop hurting innocent people. Dont make them deal with your stupid ass.