#complex singlet

[its-plural-singlet-time-baby]

I'm sad I can't hug myselves. I think we all need it. Make sure to hug yourselves today 🫂

[its-plural-singlet-time-baby]

I’m a singlet but I don’t feel like one. I feel like a part instead of “one whole person”. I feel comfortable with referring to myself with terms like part and protector but feel guilt about it. I also have been considering labeling myself as a syslet but I feel that would be wrong of me to do. anyways thought this might be a space that would be more open to the idea of someone like me.

A few ideas for you:

Maybe you are a system but don't know other parts of you exist. Maybe try writing things down or asking people around you.

Before finding out the terms that fit me/us, I/we just used a description of what was happening if I/we had to define it or if anybody asked. It's totally ok to just say 'I'm proud to be whatever this is!'

In addition, It was hard for me/us to start too. Because of all the fake claiming and people saying 'there are REAL people who are XYZ'. But when you understand that literally anything can happen and your experiences are valid, you might find what you're looking for. Whether that be a label or security in yourself.

The points that I started at were 'What label(s) am I looking at?' and 'what are my experiences?' Asking around and going to community is a great way to start so good on you 👏❤️

My/our last suggestion is pluralpedia and Pinterest. They have a lot of everything on there and you'll learn about something new no matter what

Sorry this took so long, had stuff happening 😅

[its-plural-singlet-time-baby]

I need some help here. Does anybody know a term for when you switch identities but not with preexisting or established ones? Like there's no 'headmates' but there's also no 'you'? Does this make any sense?

[its-plural-singlet-time-baby]

I'M NOT DEAD! 🎉🎉🎉

Sorry I've been gone for a bajillion years. Like I said in my last update post, a lotta stuff's been happening. I'm still monitoring this blog so don't worry about me forgetting about it! I'll try to reblog stuff onto here so you know I'm active.

Love y'all 😋✌️♥

[its-plural-singlet-time-baby]

Hello everyplural 👋

This blog is a safe space for plurallets, multiselves, pluralflux, coping self, copeidentity, and other complex plural-ish labels. I'll/we'll post stuff related to this topic

I/we are not a system, just plural. I/we do use I/me and we/us pronouns interchangeably, just depends on how I/we feel. Ex: "I said that we don't do that" "I/we said that I/we don't do that"

You can submit asks about your experiences, ask about me/us, send in requests (ex: "Can you add an ID to XYZ image?" "Can you explain what XYZ identity means?") We/I don't answer questions that are too personal but feel free to ask what you think are appropriate questions

Any venting or sad posts will be tagged with #sad

↓These specific personalities aren't really here anymore. Read bottom text for explaination*

#From Twilight = Post by Twilight Sparkle

#😺 = Post by Sio/Toast

#-Vel = Post by Vanellope Von Schweetz

#-Lore = Post by Lore

#-Host = Post by the host

#-MTT = Post by Mettaton

I make alter packs, I deny any requests that make me uncomfortable or go against my DNI (light hearted)

👍,💛,📘,🔺,🟢,🌒💬(if the definition says trauma in it then no, other wise I support),🟥,🌲,🌤️,🥧,🐊,🐌,🐳

🌄❗,💙❗,❌,🌸🍀🌵🍃🌻,🐑❓💬(I use multiple labels but the main is plurallet),🎤,🎉🌈⚡

DNI if you are anti endo or a mean person

*So the way our plural works is that there are vague types of personalities (ex: the child, the writer, the tall one) but they change specific details like name, age, gender, etc every time they front. Any questions are welcome 💞

[its-plural-singlet-time-baby]

very very singlet plural thing culture is OH MY GOD SOMEONE FINALLY SHOWED UP AFTER MONTHS. PLEASE STAY AROUND I BEG YOU I WILL LITERALLY LET YOU DO ANYTHING- /silly

I'm not going anywhere

I will rep. for as long as I'm here 🫡

[its-plural-singlet-time-baby]

questioning plurality here!!! ermm idk ive like had others speak through me and i KNOW i wasnt talking but now its so silent so idk maybe i was faking or something?? i want to be chill ab it but like im confused now i have no idea who i am. like its still ME like im still HERE but i dont FEEL like me yk? i feel too mix-y match-y to be a completely different alter yk?? does this make sense? sorry if not -sincerely a very very confused game of mix and match

OH THIS IS VERY REAL

We experience this too and have chalked it up to a few things:

• Cofronting

• Being median/monoconscious in general

• And the fact that sometimes parts go dormant or a few stay up front for days before the next big shift happens

You're still real and valid and my best advice is to document your feelings and changes. When we did that we recognized this pattern.

[its-plural-singlet-time-baby]

i think i’m questioning some kind of plurality, or maybe plurallet as somebody who considered themselves a singlet since forever. maybe something else.

besides myself, i have this sort of aspect of a dude who exists within me? from what i can tell, he doesn’t talk nor has factors of a complete distinct consciousness away from my own. it’s difficult to explain, but it feels like we are both taking the wheel that is my brain. At times, it just feels like me driving, or sometimes i feel like i am in the third person POV watching Him control some extent of me. Of course, i have full consciousness and control all the time, but .. in that particular moments, it feels like he is actually the one moving me around and i am viewing. (sorry if thats confusing wording, because i have no way to describe it clearly lol)

sometimes i can physically sense/feel him within my headspace when i am solely at the front. i just know he exists as some kind of aspect of myself, with SOME separate traits away from me. Like a facet. i do have large mental shifts and emotional shifts that differ from regular ‘me’, that i know must be him. it feels he is guiding me around sometimes, in a subconscious, mental kind of way. the only factor of separation i can feel is when he is in my headspace, as a complete different being. but when he ‘fronts’, its less distinctive at times… it gets confusing who is where.

sometimes its not me or him, and nobody is at the front. its kinda.. weird…. Its a very blurry thing and hard to describe xd. i just needed to tell anybody. apologies if any part is confusing, i can’t explain it any better..

I genuinely don't know what this situation could be, although I'd definitely say there's some trauma involved in this. I would suggest looking on pluralpedia for an answer 😅

That must be difficult to live with, maybe try talking to him if you haven't already