What imagine/want in a relationship
(a wishlist written by someone who's never been in a relationship so her mind is clear from any kind of impact)
1. When I go home to my soulmate, it's the most natural thing in the world. Like there is no easier thing on this planet, because I don't even have to think about were I'm going, my legs just walk me there.
2. When I look up from what i'm doing, I see him do the same. Our minds working together. We wanted to look at each other at the same time.
3. When he's laying down, holding his phone or a book, I instantly go there, lay on him, listening to his heartbeat. He smiles and say how much he loves when I do this, and I'm glady continuing it throughout our relationship.
4. When one of us has a bad day, or something good happened, the first this is that we call or text each other. Because nothing matters if the other doesn't know.
5. We both are really annoying because we refer to each other in every other sentence.
6. We can't fight because we either start to laugh, or just have something we want to say when the fighting stops for a minute and so we can't continue.
7. We buy each other gifts almost every day because we just going about our day, walking next to shops then we see something in in the window or on the shelf of the groceries store, and we have to buy it. It could be a dress, our favorite cookie, or literally like a guitar lol.
8. We are literally know each other moles. I know he has a tiny one on his neck, and one on his arm, and he can recite all that i have. He sometimes counts them when we are cuddling and also has to find it all!
9. Movie nights are not complete without cuddles. In fact, they are cuddle nights actually, with a movie in the background.
10. I don't feel embarrassed when I am naked. I've forgot my towel when I went to shower, but I'm already naked and he is in the bedroom? Doesn't matter, because he knows my body more than I do.
11. We don't need to talk all the time. We think the same things. We know how the others feelings change by how they shift in the chair or how the other holds it's breath for a moment longer, or how he creases his eyebrows. There's no secrets.
12. We are holding each other all the time. All. The. Time. Hoding hand, holding the waist, touching our sholders, our knees, our shoes. I'm sitting on his lap, he rests his head on mine...constant contact.
13. Intimacy is safe. I don't have to be scared that he will hurt me in any way while we spend our private time together. We don't make each other do anything we don't want. It's safe and calm, and fully satisfying.
14. We also don't have to have sex all the time. It's not the only thing that bonds us. But also it is such a good experience, and it is definitely a way to show how much we love the other. It's sacred and soft, and the nicest feeling.
15. We can cry without feeling like we are over dramatic, or being afraid that we look ridiculous or ugly.
16. We could laugh together for hours. When we are talking we just make each other laugh so much!
17. Also we talk so much, we actually have to force ourselves to go to work, or sleep or anywhere. Don't tell anyone, but sometimes we cancel things so we can talk more!
18. We cannot imagine our life without the other. It's the most cliché thing, but it's true. We can't live without the other.
19. We are doing everything together. If one of us dies, the other goes to. If one hurts, the other hurts too, if one is happy, the other is happy too. If one hates someone... well, poor person has two enemies now. It's a package deal baby!
20. And lastly. We are the couple that no one thinks will broke up. The thought couldn't even cross their mind, because we are so perfect together, that it would be insane to even think about breaking up.