#danie refs

[endlesscolddreams]

Danie rusame pair ref

RusAme

Mutual admiration + respect (alfred grew too fast and ivan was a child for too long) powerful equals that enjoy being powerful thrive on competition (no one wants to win tho) immature and call on each other shit too both extremely intelligent and show it when find someone worthy of challenge exiting since they play, joke and never let their guard down with each other see their strength on each other (also a flaw they need near and protected) both avoid compromise when fight (america makes a big fuss and russia ignores. Both think they won) to each other they are void of facades. Fulfill each other: america is attention craving and russia clingy and needy america won’t succumb to russia and russia won’t leave america Al enjoys beating ivan and get’s more motivated when loses. Ivan enjoys al’s wits and frustration. Both childish laugh, talk, joke in bed. Sexually enjoy fast faced, pulling, smacking, biting, scratching and smirking sex. Mutual masturbation, tight/rear/chest fuck, oral, frottage, 69 are satisfying but they seem to favour oral and mutual masturbation. America shows off lifting ivan against the wall or having russia on his knees. Russia enjoys dressing up and pleasing america which makes him feel cared and lusted for. Both enjoy feeling desired and cuddling. Both fear relationships ( commitment anxiety with is based on their pride and independency issues).

This is my own view on the characters and interactions.

Possible Character Disorders Russia: triggered by pain and shame (schizoid, anti-social, avoidant) America: triggered by pain and loneliness (borderline, narcissistic) Both: Distorted thinking patterns: filtering, personalisation, should and being right. Manipulation tactics: Russia (ruler-control) – converts to intimidation (forceful), Denial, diversion, minimisation, selective inattention, projecting (blaming others). America (Hero- prove himself) - converts to projection and isolation extremes Lying, shaming, diversion, rationalisation, playing the victim, projection (blaming others) . Others may apply and differ due different settings and interpretation.

[endlesscolddreams]

Danie aph america ref

Alfred

Fun and vibrant and mostly plain aggressive friendly, childish, playful, prideful, cocky, sure, bold divided, ruthless, unstable, ambitious, attention seeker struggles with independence and freedom explosive, impulsive, emotional – attached to physical consumption. Listens to Canada. easy resources, ignores bad stuff (past) egoistical (needs to be seen as good, hero) extremist, isolationist (isolate himself) dreamer, optimistic with a good heart the ends justify all ends tho articulated, science lover, nerdy in tastes uses glasses bc they make him look older wants things now and does/gets what he likes/wants with manipulation is immature (like ivan but they call on each other shit) likes big, colourful things is unnerved by the lack of vocal declarations (gets flighty, hesitant, stutters and gets defensive) overly enthusiastic sexually inexperienced (nohomobro) prefers 69 or oral sex, frottage and rubbing are a turn on too Enjoys having attention on his chest, back and hair craves attention, adoration and admiration. Enjoys having power and show off even if sometimes he gives out power to let go the weight of the world. Fears being left and rejected. Side Note: Al cares deeply for Arthur but is restricted. He restricts himself to please Arthur. With Ivan he is free to blow shit up, do as he pleases because Ivan expects him to be himself.

More here: https://1drv.ms/b/s!Av-y4fGgyYMV1w-DHV05yAFte-U-

[endlesscolddreams]

Danie aph Russia ref

Ivan

sweet looking and kind but also cold and calculating underneath his calm demeanour. Attracted to the control of the mind. Childish. hard-working, patriotic, formal, curious and educated finds comfort in the dark (familiar suffering) and accepts the darkness of the world. Knows how to get under people skin, slimy, calm and collected, always on guard, honour and pride above all. loves giving advice even if not asked for (wanted) harsh life (used to be bullied, now wants friends), hard-earned endurance drives people away due his forceful need to protect and watch others (against their will bc he knows best) possessive, jealous and unaware of his own luck, reluctant to change wants to be part of everything enjoys to watch others being silly bc they would be better under his wing (they don’t know how to take care of themselves but he knows) optimistic in a safe slightly pessimistic way, unshaken hope that he’ll never have what he wants (even when he has the resources) conservative (status), educated, sacrifices sometimes disturbing (compromise and forceful issues) doesn’t care much while caring underneath. (Patient and calm make others submit) Craves someone who won’t leave. Equal. Wants security and stability. fears being alone, left and left out. sexually a creature of touch, needs to feel cared. Enjoys power dynamics with fetishism (he’s nurturing and has girly hobbies but an alpha) fast, rough yet sweet. Considerate, enjoys frottage, tight/rear fuck and feel the other hands on his thighs, butt and lips on neck.

More here: https://1drv.ms/b/s!Av-y4fGgyYMV1w-DHV05yAFte-U- :