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dapperdick replied to your post: i just took off my gels and my nails are so angry...
Dude do you use anything for your cuticles cuz mine are brutal right now
i worship bio oil. SO MULTIPURPOSE!
dapperdick replied to your post “dapperdick replied to your post “dapperdick replied to your post ...”
That's why you totally don't do that. reach out the way it feels natural to do so. You only want friends and significant others in your life that want the real you. Not the fabricated stuff on some dating site. (and the you I know is wonderful without the fluff anyway)
Well, that’s what it feels like, even if you’re trying to be honest about it. Which is a large part of why I’ve never followed through with it. /shrugs I’ve got enough new people to get to know right now with the larp group. So I’ll probably just continue to let life happen and just...keep an eye out and try not to be my usual oblivious self to such things.
Also, <3<3<3
dapperdick replied to your post “dapperdick replied to your post “dapperdick replied to your post ...”
I think you and I are one in the same. I don't dig casual dating either and I'm demi af so it isn't like romance just HAPPENS. So my only advice is hit up a place like okcupid and go in with the intent to build friendships. widen your scope of friends to include these new people that always have a secondary intent to find romance, too. then go from there.
Yeaaaahhh...I’ve started considering myself demi as well...since it’s basically almost exactly how I’ve always felt about attraction. But I’m also super introverted so... I keep thinking about trying Geek 2 Geek, but I also just feel really awkward trying to promote myself to others.
dapperdick replied to your post “dapperdick replied to your post “One of the other new players is...”
You totally have a point though so give yourself some credit. regardless of age and maturity there's also levels to this whole life thing. And someone who is a decade younger than you, no matter how mature, is at an entirely different stage and learning things they ought to at that age. And when in doubt, if it makes you feel icky? Don't do it.
Pffft, the fact that the amount of people I’ve dated can be counted on one hand....”don’t do it” is sort of my way of life. Age gap or no.
dapperdick replied to your post “One of the other new players is actively matchmaking for my character...”
You need to focus entirely on the maturity of the person AND their age. Personally? I wouldn't date anyone younger than 21 + anyone without a decent amount of maturity to go with it
Oh, absolutely. Maturity plays a HUGE factor. I don’t exactly get accused of acting my age, whatever that actually means anymore, but I know people in their 40s and 50s that still act like obnoxious teenagers and then there are several guys in this game in the middle 20s that are much more mature than that first set.
It’s still weird to wrap my brain around the idea of thinking about dating someone with a decade of age difference, in either direction.