#dating experience

[calloutforcupid]

Being a lesbian with no dating experience is SO DEPRESSING!!💔

[aploheartz]

Dating: Fictional Other vs Non Fiction

dating a fictional character is better than dating someone outside of fiction because your f/o technically can't leave you unless you decide so. breakup fucking hurts, I don't want to experience that again at least for a while even if it's already been a while since last time. I see nothing wrong with this train of thought, dating Casper now has brought joy and I finally can see someone else's face (Casper's) instead of my real life ex when I think "my boyfriend". dating my ex was nice, TMI but it was an awesome years long relationship, but the afterthoughts when it was over make me hate remembering him even if it was nice because I don't want to miss him anymore, it's been long enough, it just makes me angry to think about atp.

[ungekvsst]

My real dating experiences: none existant My mental dating experiences: currently in four different relationships but there are like at least five more which are just on pause

[scattered-imagination]

Do you know what hurts the most?

Trying your best to put yourself out there and date. smiling and listening and enjoying their company. you feel like you had a connection. you feel happy and calm.

Dating Guys never felt as comfortable as Dating women has been...

but

I feel like everytime I get comfortable

they say I'm too much

or

They say I'm too good, they're not used to this

that I'm too happy and cheery and open

and then?

I'm ghosted

like...

can we normalize saying

"Hey I don't want to hurt you but I know this will. I don't want to date you anymore because I don't think we are a good fit. And I probably will slowly stop talking to you because it's hard and awkward for me"

please

because I don't think my heart can take much more of waiting by the phone as I wait for their response...

[taekooktimeline]

July 2014

Tae is spotted getting jealous on camera (AHL location). He places his leg between Jm and Jk. (see (see Amaranth TK “When did Taekook love story begin? [part 2/?], time stamp 27:43).

screengrab from Amaranth TK “When did Taekook love story begin? [part 2/?]

Also during AHL Jk rubs Tae’s jaw while saying this:

Jk uses Tae as his comfort zone to hide

using him once again

Jk wants to know what Tae thinks about the girls. He complains members are flirting with them & says he doesn’t want to get married anytime soon. He wants the girls to leave.

Jk says he finds the grapes more interesting than the girls.

(screenshot from Ansitless -

https://youtu.be/GMc4qjSz33U

, timestamp 4:05)

https://youtu.be/7dSMEMiNfeE

  in reality Tae panics when one of the girls hugs him (partly because of the possible backlash)

(clip of Tae gently nudging the girl off of him -

https://www.instagram.com/p/B1UFF2jHx9G/?igshid=1tu1ra8qxmgxf

@taekook_rainbow insta) 

meanwhile Jk says he hasn’t loved yet & he wasn’t interested in going out with his “girlfriend” when they were younger

(

https://youtu.be/kMNGHX7uPo4

time stamp 1:18-end)

[bratxmon]

Brat is a true brat, in the sense if I feel ignored by you I will delete you no hesitations

[sapphic-sex-ed]

I'm a bi girl in my mid 20s and never kissed anyone let alone had sex. I have fear of penetration so I haven't even done that for masturbation. I didn't want to date for a long time but now I think I might want to. But how do I explain how inexperienced I am? It's embarrassing and scary but I don't want to be alone forever. And I'm a little scared of sex and intimacy but I want to try.

This is a normal experience and a normal fear. Sapphic people tend to have their first kiss/relationship/sex at later ages than cishet people thanks to being repressed.

Anyone you date will be understanding, and if they aren’t then you shouldn’t date them. If you end up trying things with a guy, guys are in general less understanding and accommodating. If it doesn’t work out and you still want to try, you might look for a lady instead. We get it, even if we did things early. A decent girl won’t make you uncomfortable.

It’s okay to not want to do some things. You might try out kissing or sex and decide it’s not for you and that’s absolutely fine. Maybe you’ll figure out you’re Ace and/or Aro. Maybe you’ll try it and love it and find your fears weren’t necessary. Feel free to experiment and try new things as you want to. Take your time. There’s no rush.

-*Mod Star*