Oct 6, 2017
me: Wants to bring up my gender with my bf with a joke about a space print binder
also me: Last person I came out to L I T E R A L L Y abandoned me. Complete ghost. Moderately traumatizing.
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me: Wants to bring up my gender with my bf with a joke about a space print binder
also me: Last person I came out to L I T E R A L L Y abandoned me. Complete ghost. Moderately traumatizing.
CW: transantagonism, NB-antagonism in the world of dating
(balance out my good day with pending transantagonism from a woman on OkC who messaged me and offered to cook me dinner last week. Now it's coming out she probably didn't see my profile with numerous gender explanations. The discussion is heading in a bad direction. Oh well. Also, CIS PEOPLE READ PEOPLE'S FUCKING PROFILES. This was a rare time I didn't -additionally- bring up my gender in the first message, and now it looks like I should've so I could get a transantagonistic message right away and move on faster. Also also so tired of antagonism from cis bi people. Cis people, y'all don't even know how it is for non-binary people, and 2S/Trans people in general. If I was cis this wouldn't have happened but I don't mess with transantagonistic assholes so hey, better to know. I need to start invoicing people for being horrible cause if I had $10 for every situation like this, then I'd have a nice chunk of savings. Still. The end.)