My girlfriend (a switch) is unable to go into any headspace. I can't help her in person due to us being long distance. I'm trying everything I can to get her into little space,but nothing's working. What should we do? Should we try getting her to mommy space, or...? We just don't know what to do.
Do you know if there’s a specific reason she can’t get into any headspace? If there is, talking about it might help. Maybe she’s stressed, upset, etc. if not, it could just be one of those times that it doesn’t work. If she can’t get into little space, try with Mommy space and go from there.