#deduced and solved

[debussys]

last night i went out drinking with a group of friends for the first time and it's all people i really like and want to spend more time with and i started to get to know them better at the end of last year but most of the time i still kind of feel like i'm tagging along rather than actually being part of their group, but last night they made several comments that made me feel like they'd like me to continue going out with them in the future and it made me really happy

ah that’s wonderful!!! i’m c’: for you, finding/being accepted into a new friend group that you’ve had friend-crushes on is the best feeling.

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[debussys]

hey!! so um i've been dating this guy for a couple months now. it was super amazing in the beginning and he was so perf! but now he seems a little distant and doesn't text as often, we don't go on dates as much, etc. I know its natural that things slow down so maybe I'm overreacting. I don't want to bring it up because I'm sure its no big deal and I also dont want to seem clingy. what do you think? :I

oh man ok hmmm... i think maybe wait a little bit before you do anything. like you said, maybe it’s a non issue and it’s just things kind of slowing down. but!! if things continue like this/get worse and you’re still kind of worried and bothered about it, then maybe you should bring it up with him? kind of play it down so he doesn’t think you’re being like “”obsessed”” or “”clingy”” (not that you are at all!! i agree that this is a lil ?? but like ... boy = dumb ... -.-).

oh another thing! if you’re friends w any of his friends then maybe you could talk to them and be like “hey don’t bring this up w him but uh ... has he said anything about us/me to you? he’s been kind of distant and i just want to be sure everything’s ok”

(or ignore me if this advice is horrible ?? i’m shitty when it comes to dealing with other human beans)

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[debussys]

Hi! I've done nothing all day and I'm preparing to hang out with the person I like tomorrow:-:

sounds wonderful! tell me how it goes ah good luck <3

[debussys]

After months of being unemployed I got hired for a job! It's a server job and those have pros and cons but yay! I'm so happy.

THAT’S AMAZING oh my god congrats!!! ah i am so so happy for you c’: wowow that’s so great haha 

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[debussys]

hey, I'm gonna tell you a sad story right now. I wanted to see Sam Smith at Rock In Rio today but I didn't have tickets :( I had to see on tv and cried lots :(

noooo aw beb i’m so sorry :’c maybe next time??

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[debussys]

I just went to a world music festival that's hosted all around my town in tents and theaters and churches. I snuck into a basementof one of the churches and it was so empty but I could feel the bass echo through the whole building like it was alive. At the last tent I didn't know the words but I sang along and I danced so much my body hurts and I feel like I can do anything.

you sound like you were living the DREAM pls c’:

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[debussys]

#i'll ching chong ling long ting tong your ass u uncultured pig. oh my gosh, lily i am actually dying. u go gurl

*sends all of the heart emojis @ u*

[debussys]

i know what being lonely's like i'm sorry you have to go through that i hope you find someone who makes your heart less sad

i’m sorry that you’ve gone through this :c but thank you <33 i hope you’ve found the same!! or maybe you’ve learned to cheer up your own heart