to be fair dick was my favorite for a while! maybe that's just due to nostalgia but i definitely had a dick grayson era. I think my favorite (yandere wise) would be tim? I like the way you put it; heās charming but still more approachable than dick. I think part of that is that, to a lot of people, dick never seems to get angry. tim feels a lot more human because heās not this constant pillar of support for everyone, he gets tired and itās pretty obvious. yandere or not all of the bats are putting up a facade most of the time. maybe their guards arenāt up 24/7 but batman definitely trained them to . dick feels distant and dissociative in a way because only a few people have seen him really ticked off. timās also younger, and probably knows how heās expected to act around others or socialize with his peers. he jokes around a lot i think but part of his charm is also just his. awkwardness? i think dickās more charismatic than charming, anyway. (not that tim is more friendly than dick, heās just more normal. his normality is part of his charm!! heās not perfect and itās realistic. i think dick has more charisma because in a way, everyoneās accepted that heās just this perfect, universal constant. heās well rounded: heās friendly and you can bring him home to meet your mother but at the same time, heās intimidating and his presence demands attention. i like to think that itās stage presence, and that he got it from his (short) time with the flying graysons.) this is very much another tangent sorry! i have a lot of thoughts on them.
I !!!! AGREE!!! ENTIRELY!!!
TIM IS ACTUALLY THE MOST 'NORMAL' OF THEM by regular person standards...
meanwhile dick is like. the Perfect Guy .
I think if his darling ever saw him truly ticked off they'd get scared, even though the anger isn't being directed at them. his family grew up seeing cracks in the surface of his facade, also saw him fighting as robin/nightwing, so it's not shocking to them, but to you... dick's only ever been smiley and teasing and kind. he's never said anything terribly negative about anybody. so seeing him punch a guy out or coldly put someone in a headlock feels obscenely wrong...
and no don't apologize i love thoughts
