28 y.o. AC installer...Local boys aka 3rd/4th generation in Hawaii and have never left the islands
This is prolly local boy #5 that I have met since last November. Again, very nice guy. Picks you up, pays for dinner, not a pervert (at least not yet?). But just…zero conversation.
My friend recently told me…maybe I have been spoiled having lived in NYC Bc the majority of the people I met had a story of their own. But here….story? What are those? 😓
He works 6:30am - 3pm installing AC. Goes home after that to avoid traffic. If he eats out, it’s genki sushi. He has never tasted uni and doesn’t like to eat food if they don’t look right to him. Doesn’t know how a shoyu bottle works. Orders teriyaki chicken and spicy ahi roll. Doesn’t eat any other raw fish.
Does he drink? Vodka coke maybe. Never had a mojito. Doesn’t like beer. Jameson tastes weird. Watch movies? Not really Watch tv? Rarely Surf? Don’t know how Swim? Barely Hike? (I mentioned the two that I went on yesterday - he’s never heard of them yet he grew up here) Video game? Nope Church? Nope Karaoke? Nope Beach? Don’t really like it Does he volunteer? Nope Music? Listen to anything but never heard of Spotify He liked high school more Bc his friends were all there. His fav class was piano but he failed the tests because he was too lazy to practice. He didn’t know what it takes to get into Iolani/punahou.
The few questions he’s asked me… What was it like going to Iolani? I said - what do you mean? What is your impression of Iolani? He answered: rich over ambitious straight As kids What I like to do on wkeds? I said hike, volunteer, maybe beach.
Dare I even ask about travels?
I asked him the 6 questions abt the house the cube the flowers the ladder the storm and the cat. He was amused. Didn’t ask about mine.
Told him about Myers Briggs…never heard of them but will prolly take it to understand.
Other topics - open relationships, freshmen horror stories, boys and girls club, ways you were brought up, types of friends, prior dates...etc etc From 6pm - 9pm...forced conversation...
I was first person he met online.
Sigh…
update from day after...unmatched on tinder. guess he felt it too.