#don't force things

[mostro-rotto]

The biggest lesson I've learned this year… Don't force things. Don't force conversations, friendships, attention or love. Anything forced... just isn't worth fighting for. Let what flows flow and what's crashes crash… Remember… It is… what it is!

[zombiejane]

[the1975catlover]

I like you. I’m falling for you, but let’s take our time. 

[kouneequeen]

What's for me will always be for me . That's why I relax . I don't need to compete or seek validation . What's for me is ALWAYS for me ."

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[thegentlemanron]

Don't force a relationship

People get desperate and will date anybody just to have someone around lol. Those people still be lonely inside but try playing it off like they are really happy. No need to force a relationship. What's the point when you are still sad inside? Lol...You don't need anyone to rely on for happiness. Once you accept what happened in your past relationships, let go of that past hurt, work on self love and focus on yourself things will fall into place. People always make the mistake of trying to force themselves to love someone. #MyThoughts

[kitty-minion-blog]

On the topic of "bless you"

I'm an atheist. I was raised by an ex catholic gone to some sort of spiritual belief system and an atheist with some input from my vaguely religious grandma (who has become obnoxiously religious since my grandpa died). I have always said "bless you" whenever anyone sneezes. I never specify who is doing the blessing. I let others choose. It could be their God, it could be lucifer, it could be a tree, or they could just take it as a wish for good health from me. I don't care. It's a habit. My grandma always says "God bless you", which rather pisses me off because of the way she says it sometimes. When I was little she once told me that if nobody said bless you when you sneezed that the devil would steal your soul. That scared me so much that I started blessing myself when I sneezed alone. That kind of crap is unhealthy to say to a young child. I was about 4 when she said it. She only said it the one time but I had nightmares for months of a little red stereotypical devil jumping out, saying things like "nobody blessed you, you're mine now" and then whisking me away to "hell" which I pictured as a desert. So please, for me, DONT DO THAT.

[ellusivee]

Wanted to send you a text, so I group texted my girls instead.

ellusivee "if you already know the outcome, create a new solution"

[hil94]

So tonight was a lesson in using the law of attraction and it not working. I had plans already to go see a tarot card reader and throughout the day I was messaging the Italian. so he wanted to come over and fool around but he's sick and I couldn't fool around so I told him to just come over and watch a movie. so I postpone my reading to Sunday, Italian guy isn't sure if he's coming so I tell him it's up to him if he wants to come so at 7 I msged him to see if I was going to pick him up and no answer. so how is it related to the law of attraction? don't try to force things!!! and let go! I am annoyed and I'm trying so hard not to be because I keep on thinking that I somehow managed to mess up whatever I had going with him again. like, I asked him to come watch a movie, he's sick and wasn't sure so i gave him the option to come or not. so why do I feel like I was in the wrong?