#don'tplan

[caffeinebeforehonour]

Don’t Plan

Planned a sweet hike through a local park....heavy rain Planned a baking marathon...caught the flu ....I think someone is trying to tell me not to plan anything.

[observingisfun]

He may not be the one but lets plan shit together 6 months in advance

Sorry for the profanity. no..not really 

My bestie told me once that she didn't know if her new boyfriend was the one but she had fallen hard for him. 

I know I know. Facepalm to the forehead. 

From this comes the new topic. I was even leery planning things ahead with my boyfriend until we were really serious. I sometime am still leery about planning things far in advance with my boyfriend. He may laugh at me but you never know what can go wrong or what can happen especially if it's a big financial commitment to something.

I guess you could say I always knew my boyfriend was the one. I was pretty smitten from the beginning. Making trips to Chicago, going camping, taking trips to places far and wide, going to concerts. 

I guess I just don't understand my friend. Really if i didn't think he was the one I would not being making plans with him 4-6 months in advance. It's almost a waste of relationship and time. Why string him along?

In another awkward double date, I watch that boyfriend of my bestie take a good hard look at one of her rings because she liked the cut. I don't think he realizes if he's not making 80,000 or more a year he doesn't have a shot with my friend. It's sad to say but it's true.

It's all just really weird. I really don't want my friend to get hurt or hurt that poor boy. There romance just seems forced.

Until next time.

-GC