It's not your job to say what can or can't offer a non cis person. don't fucking label everyone as queer, especially if you're a cis ally. respect people's identities and how they want to be called
Okay, I am sorry. I sincerely didn’t know that queer is still offensive word. I wrote it in polish, I’ll write it in English again, that from what I know, “queer” was offensive and used by homophones in years maybe 70 to 90s. Later on it was kinda embraced by lgbt+ community. It even was lgbtq isn’t it still? And since this word by itself isn’t unequivocal anymore, its meaning should be defined by intention of a user. Of course it’s my opinion, and anyone can disagree. Also definition on wikipedia of “queer gender” saying that it’s interchangeable with non-binary, embracing all people who do not fit into binary genders, is misleading then? I am confused. I want to be sure and understand. confusion leads, as we see now, to many unpleasant situations. Also, by cis you mean only gender? Because now also definition of cishet is confusing, while defining also sexuality and romantic attraction (hetero x2). Because since I’m aro ace I no longer know if I’m non-cis ally or am non cis myself if I’m not cishet. And is demi-female AFAB person cis? I consider myself so. But maybe I mislead myself?
