#ennegrams

[8ril]

i wish i was a fictional character just so someone would spend an excruciating amount of time analyzing me and my decisions and vote the results on personality database so i don't have to spend so much fucking time trying to figure out who i am lol

[theexodvs]

Ennegrams is astrology for young evangelical women.

[femaleentj]

You seem to understand MBTI more than I do. I'm at ENTJ 8w7. Rumor has it, that stereotypically, we shouldn't get along. How would you separate your 9th from my 7th, in terms of reasonable differences..?

Well, first off, I don't give a shit about stereotypes. 

But actually, we are both very assertive and know what we want. And, we can both respect each other for that. I just, because of how my life has been, seek peace and calm. I lead a club and often am the one who has to keep everyone happy and amicable. So, because of that, I seek peace. I'm a church kid (and ENTJ church kid, what?) and because of that I often put others before myself, and so I try to find the solution that appeases others first, as I know I can find my peace once the conflict is over. So, my assertiveness is being used to keep order, because I can only have time to figure myself out if there isn't other conflict to tear me away.

You, however, are looking to fulfill yourself first. There is nothing wrong with that. You do you, girl. You do you. So, you use your assertiveness to get what you want, when you want it. And, once you are pleased, you can then focus on everything else. And that makes sense. Take the stick out of your eye before you can even think about taking the log out of someone else's. 

How we can get along? Just respect that about each other. You may not completely understand why I prefer to help others first, and I may get annoyed that you help yourself first. But, as long as we respect each other, I don't see why we can't be friends. Hell, that just means that I will gladly help you out with your problems, I might just ask that you scratch my back in return every once in a while. We can both respect our can-do attitudes, so let's just extend that respect to our MOs. :)