Aug 16, 2021
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#trying to look for more places to#make some new friends#but I swear#everytime I poke my head into bi spaces#I just do not relate#like someone mentioned r/bi_irl#and I just..#no#I'm a Kinsey 5#my longest term relationship has been with a woman#erasure is not my key concern#and i don't feel like my bisexuality#is remotely edgy#the fetishization of genderqueer/genderfluid people#in bi spaces I've seen make me DEEPLY uncomfortable#or of trans folks generally#so I'm struggling to find a place to make friends#especially sober spaces#last time I drank some wine#my hands and feet went totally numb#like I can't drink to socialize anymore#ughhhh#I want to check out lesbian spaces#but worry about that too#ughhhhhh