Jan 9, 2021
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Joe Biden
the guy just freaking messaged me his number. i haven't talked to him at all today and he just up and gives me his number out of the blue, what the hell? who just hands out their number like that? now what do i do? do i just blatantly tell him im not interested now?
So there is this guy who I have only met briefly in my freshman year of high school -when he was a junior, but we somehow wound up becoming facebook friends because we had so many mutual friends in common.
I had not seen or heard from him at all since that one time we met, besides seeing his activity on facebook.
Well, this guy just got accepted to my university and is starting in the fall! And I think this could be a good opportunity to actually become real life friends. Lately we have interacted a bit more on facebook, just through comments and a few short facebook messages. He knows that I go to said university. We chatted about the on-campus housing he is moving into and he wanted to know what Christian clubs are on campus.
He is a pretty cool guy from what I know from his facebook. He is super pro-life and very Christian. (I think he could definitely become interested in Catholicism. He is very interested in theology and is always posting theological questions on facebook. He is currently non-denominational but I think if he heard the truth and theology of Catholicism he would come to believe it.)
So I am hoping to reconnect with him when the semester starts. I really hope he will be willing to try out CCM and Students for Life. Please pray for him as he starts this fall! He is a really cool guy and I can't wait to have the opportunity to grow in friendship.
The Facebook guy who wanted to hang out tonight told me that he would get ahold of me sometime today. Well I didn't hear anything from him all day, so I send him a message simply saying hello and he doesn't even respond to that. Was this some kind of joke to make me think he was flirting? I mean, I know I'm unattractive and all, but guys don't have to be rude about liking or disliking me.
"you make me happy"
see, maybe if we'd just been having nice long and really deep meaningful conversations about our lives then it would be cool to say this.
but the fact is that within the first 30 minutes of meeting and chatting with you you said stupid shit like "i've never connected with someone like this before"
We've talked for maybe 5 times. Our conversations are short, broad, and polite. That's all i'm giving you here. Politeness. The thing is I know what you're doing. It's exactly the kind of desperation I had last year and it's what got me into my first relationship. I'm actually kind of thankful for that experience because now I see right through your dumb bullshit. The fact is that you barely know me. Perhaps you've looked through all of my photos and stalked my facebook, which I'm guessing you probably have. But the thing is that in our conversations I've given you nothing to indicate I like you anymore than an acquaintance.
And so, if I really do make you happy, you sure as fuck better be ready to explain to me why. Because you don't know me.
I THINK HE'S FLIRTING WITH ME GODDAMMIT I DON'T HAVE THE ENERGY FOR THIS
there's a dude talking to me who went to my high school on fb and i'm just like
AHHHH A BOY
LEAVE ME ALONE TO BE A NERD TALKING TO YOU IS STRESSFUL
if you're going to be the one to start the topic then you gotta be the one to continue it. i can't be the only one asking questions this isn't how a conversation works dang.