As an early childhood education major, my professors often put an emphasis on the importance of attachment between a child and adult. People who work in an early childhood environment must create these attachments to build trust between them and the children. I’m not working in the field yet, but last semester I took a class that required the students to observe a specific child 3 hours weekly to assess their developmental level. An important part of the observation was to build a trusting relationship with this child. To be honest, I felt that the child I chose liked my company, but I wasn’t sure to what extent. I always felt I was a bit lacking because I only got 3 hours a week to get to know her better and the observation only lasted for about 12 weeks. So after the semester was over, I just thought...it was nice to get to know that precious, young child, but she probably won’t remember me if I went there again. Well, I did go to that same classroom recently to do another observation for a different class. The girl I observed wasn’t there when I arrived. Then the children soon left the classroom to play outdoors while I stayed inside to fill in my workbook. When the children came back, I was standing near the door, but out of their way. The girl I observed last semester walked in and when she saw me, she smiled and ran to give me a hug. The last time I saw her was at the end of November 2016, but she actually remembered me. And honestly, that was so rewarding, like I just felt I was actually able to create a relationship with this young child which is something I just didn’t feel confident about because I am still a bit self-conscious with acting silly with children when other adults are watching. I was happy that she recognized me and that hug I received from her has helped me feel a bit more confident with what I’m doing as an early childhood education major. :)



















