infantilization whump needs to be explored more. grown whumpees who infantilized by whumper, treated patronizingly; bonus points if this includes forced dependency.
whumpee tied up or otherwise incapable of feeding themselves so whumper feeds them by hand. bonus points is whumpee refuses to eat and whumper pries open their mouth and force feeds them.
similarly, whumpee is also bathed by whumper. maybe whumpee is drugged or in more extreme cases, they're disabled. maybe whumper amputated their limbs or broke their bones, whatever the situation is, it's an excuse for whumper to give whumpee a nice, well deserved bubble bath.
whumper who forces whumpee to sit on their lap, carries whumpee around like a child, and puts a child leash on whumpee whenever they go out. or you can take it a step further and have whumper treat whumpee like a literal baby, strapping them into an adult-sized stroller or tucking them into a crib at night.
whumper uses a pacifier gag on whumpee to shut them up. then they proceed to humiliate whumpee by gushing over how cute they are, what an adorable little baby! look at you, sucking on your little binkie!
whumper dressing whumpee up as an infant, i mean there are so many options. should they put whumpee in a cute animal onesie? maybe an extra short frilly dress with diapers? what about one of those puffy bloomers? tie a cute pink bonnet around their head and look at how adorable they look!
every time whumpee tries to fight back, they know it's no use. there's no way they look intimidating dressed as a literal toddler. there's no fucking way anyone would take them seriously when their hair is tied into pigtails and there's a bib around their neck while they're bound to a stroller.
even worse that every time whumpee cusses and screams at whumper, this is just inviting more humiliation. whumper lives for the moments when whumpee snaps, it's basically free entertainment.
whumper simply giggles and squeezes whumpee's cheeks, pinches their nose, ruffles their hair, plants kisses all over whumpee's face, pinches and pulls whumpee's cheeks until they're red and sore.
whumper takes whumpee's cheeks between their hands and squeezes until whumpee can't form coherent words anymore. then whumper laughs and points out how adorable it is, "you can't even talk properly! what was that, sweetheart? you're gonna have to speak more clearly, i can't understand a word of what you're saying." all the while, whumpee's face gets increasingly red, both due to anger and embarassment.
whumper treats whumpee's threats and infuriated protests as little temper tantrums, nothing to be worried about. "oh you look so cute when you're all pouty and angry like that! that's a big word for a child, darling. don't make me spank you!"
and yes, whumper absolutely bends whumpee over and spanks them whenever they misbehave. or tweaks their ear in milder cases. whumpee hates it, they would rather be tortured to death than withstand this humiliation ritual.
and of course, bonus points if whumper does all this in front of their friends. whumper who goes to a party and brings whumpee around in a stroller or carries whumpee in their arms. whumper's friends all gush over how adorable whumpee is, pinching their cheeks and babytalking to them. and if whumpee ever steps out of line or tries to escape, they get spanked in front of everyone. doesn't matter if it actually hurts because whumper knows that nothing gets to whumpee more than the crushing, mortifying humiliation of it all.
also this is a theme with all my posts but this trope works best if whumpee was previously a very esteemed person. a highly respect public figure. a dominant leader. an intimidating force to anyone who opposed them. all that bravado and ego boiled down to this.
