I have never been as disgusted as I am now.
Look... Chance (my ex-fiance, foxoffun) is NOT who I thought he was. He is abusive, he is possessive, he is manipulative, he is deceitful. I have overlooked a lot of terrible things he's done because... well... I was stupid enough to believe him when he said he loved me. I did my best to stay aware and stand my ground, but he manipulated me into forgiving him and wanting to stay with him.
But it's over now. Chance and I are done, and I want to tell you all what has happend between us.
To summarize what he did in a list, he...
> Took my phone while I was sleeping and deleted every memory I had saved of my ex
> Spread rumors about me among my tight friend group, after having shown obvious jealousy of my involvement with them
> Blocked me from leaving the house after bullying me for talking to my friend
> When I tried locking myself in a room to escape him, he body-slammed the door and prevented me from closing it
> Accused me of being a sexual predator to a minor
> Accused me of theft, telling my mom and our roommates that I stole clothes and games
> Lied that I was blocking him on all social media after I left him for trapping me in the house
> Told my mom my laptop password and gave her my tablet and all my account informations
> Told my mom that I had packed very personal items when I left him
> Gave my mom my tablet because he wanted her to search it for evidence on something I didn't do (the predator matter), then lied to me and said “she asked me for it so I gave it to her, I don't know why she wanted it”
> Lied that I was going to a “drug party”, which he knew was really an all-ages drag show
> Lied that I was going to move in with someone and prostitute myself to them
> Lied that I am emotionally manipulative, remorseless, and willing to walk all over him
> Has demanded that I tell him everything about my friends and what I talk to them about, invading my privacy and then guilt tripping me by saying I was supposed to be “completely transparent” in a relationship
> Has tried to dictate who I talk to and who I hang out with
> Guilt tripped me over a bad dream he had until I let him engage in coitus with me, because I thought it was the only way to calm him down. He did it while I was crying, partially because I was terrified and partially because it really hurt.
> Threatened my family with illegal measures of violence
> Lied that I was trying to convince him that he was crazy, and that it was my idea to send him to a psychiatric hospital
He has been spreading bold-faced lies about me and I believe he will continue to do so. Do not trust him if he tries to sway you.
I wanted to tell you this because I know that many of you were worried about me and wondering what was going on between us. In short terms, we are DONE.
