a few thoughts on girl meets ski lodge part 2 and its consequences
maya hart is everything and she’s starting to get all the good stuff she deserves. the second joshaya conversation is proof of this. i’m really really into this relationship’s development. you see here we have the one relationship with the three years difference (18-15/16?) yet the healthiest one. it’s no longer one-sided or purely platonic. they both like each other, but they are aware it’s not right to date YET. they will live their lives, see where those take them, and in a future someday MAYBE they will be more than a thing. what implies that they’re not tied to each other until maya is old enough, which makes their agreement an actual mature one.
i don’t hate rucas, i see the cuteness in it okay? but it’s getting more and more problematic. mainly, because of lucas being sick-jealous, possesive and petty af. it’s! not! okay! i know it’s a disney show and it’s quite hard more-like-impossible to extirpate the misogyny out of disney, BUT it’s quite simple to problematize lucas’ behaviour. stand up riley you queen! call out that passive-agressive violence maya! (at least topanga does). it’s time for shows, and even more for the ones who are aimed to preteen and teen audience, to acknowledge and reject these misogynist “subtle” agressions of romantic (and others) relationships. i mean, it could be a nice cute bubbly relationship if they talked out these problems, making it healthier.
i hope riley gets to grow up like a lot this season. i love her character, she’s beautiful everywhere one looks at, and i love how she always sees the brighter side of things and people. but her naivety won’t take her that far. i think she can be the great human being she is while being a little more idk awake??, simply more aware of issues that aren’t about her and the 10 people that surround her daily. high school years are the time when you realize that. also what the fuck is this about riley thinking maya is a criminal, that wants to screw up the world?? she’s clearly nothing like that, but i feel like riley’s vision of the world doesn’t let her see the real maya. not everything (mostly anything) is black or white, i thought they’d learnt that at gm the new teacher.
also! people who think a (disney) show can actually educate you on feelings: don’t. sometimes you might like the same person your friend likes, and it might not be because you’re trying to protect your friend or even be them, or because you’re going throw an identity crisis. sometimes you like a person because of what that person is, and your friendships have nothing to do with that (!!what it’s actually not rare at all, is that friends have a lot in common and aren’t completely opposites so it’s not that crazy that you like the same person!!) and it’s confusing and it might bring trouble, but that’s what feelings are. i’m sorry.
farkle knows all of this already, he’s just as tired of this bullshit as i am