Something I've learned is that people focus too much on what they want their future partner to look like or give them in the relationship and not enough on what they personally have to offer. It's like, you have this grocery list of qualities in a person and that's just not realistic.
YES that is what I was trying to say lmao
and there’s proof of it everywhere I had tinder once and almost every guy’s profile listed their height as over 6 feet so people would swipe right











