#griefpost

[delcat177]

I’m drawing again, Mom. I have a little friend called Blobs Magician. You’d like him, he’s a little guy and I drew him by accident and looked at him and smiled, and it was in a way I hadn’t in a long time, so I’m still drawing him, and I’m still smiling. Sometimes I halfway think you sent him my way, you loved drawing for me, you loved it when I drew.

You would have kicked so much ass last year. You would have popped straight out of retirement and into phone calls, you wouldn’t have been able to sit still. I hope I have that someday. I at least made terrible gallows jokes for you, that voice will never leave this plane.

I miss you, and I love you, and I’ll always be your chickadee. We’ll be electrical events on the same plane together someday. Until then, I will cultivate your garden.

And remember, wherever you go...

...there you are.

[prof-byona]

vent art that actually made me feel better and i like it so i thought i’d share

octopus talks to the aphotic zone

[prof-byona]

Forgiveness has a lot of value in life. I do encourage everyone to forgive if possible. But forgiveness is also largely overplayed: unless it feels right to you, you do not need to forgive someone who has brought destruction into your life in some manner. Even if they didn't mean to, even if they are not an evil person, you don't need to forgive a man who has killed. 

[mrsjigsaw4106]

From pen to person. This last year has sucked major ass, but I'll always have a piece of him with me now. I miss you, Dad. #freshink #griefpost #memorialtattoo #myoldman

[mrsjigsaw4106]

Missing you today, and every day, Daddy. #griefpost #lovemydad

[mrsjigsaw4106]

Depression is not always staying in bed all day, or never leaving the house. Depression makes you not want to do the things that bring you joy. It's my favorite time of year, and Halloween is my favorite holiday. But I can't bring myself to do anything I normally would. Usually by now, my house would be fully decorated, and I'd have at least two different costume ideas. Depression from grief, I feel, is the worst kind of depression. I lost my dad eight months ago, but it still feels like it just happened. I'm still not used to him not being here. #griefpost #depressionhurts

[desirethepositive]

Guys I really really really need support and I can't stop crying can somebody please tell me a story about something good

[desirethepositive]

It's so nice having someone in town here that will go with me on Christmas to visit my brother's grave honestly I was too scared to go alone because I didn't think I'd be able to go home or function or do anything it still hurts it's been four fucking years and it still hurts but I'm not the only one and it's so validating and I feel so much safer