Insecure Partner Headcanons
(how they support and reassure you)
Reth, Hassian, Nai’o, Hodari
Reth
it baffles him that you could feel insecure in the relationship at all
he doesn’t take it personally, he knows it’s not his fault
he just thinks you’re so amazing and thinks it’s a blessing to be with you every day
and he feels like you’re way above his league
so it confuses him when you ask him if he’d still love you if you were a worm
because yeah??? he’ll love you in any way shape or form
he knows you just need a little extra reassurance and he’s more than happy to give it
he always makes your favorite meal when you’re feeling particularly down
and he holds you and plants many kisses all over your face as he reassures you that he’s not leaving and that you make him so happy
Hassian
while he comes off as abrasive when you first meet, he’s actually a very gentle lover
he’s very attentive to your emotions, so he can tell you’re feeling insecure even before you say anything by reading your body language
and by that time he’s already gone out and purchased a small gift for you to show his devotion and appreciation
he gifts it to you as soon as he comes home and pulls you into a hug
and he loves slow dancing with you
he puts on a record and twirls you around the kitchen as he whispers praises and promises to love you forever in your ear
Nai’o
it’s always unexpected when you express feeling insecure
your hints always go over his head so when you finally mention something, it puts him in a bit of a frenzy
did he say something wrong? was he not spending enough time with you? he knows the farm keeps him busy but he never wants to make you feel like you’re not a priority
and you have to do a little reassuring to him that he’s done everything right, you just have insecurities and anxiety
but once he gets it he will stop at nothing to make sure you feel secure
his go-to method is a bouquet of flowers and a heartfelt letter professing his love for you and everything he loves about you
all your quirks and habits, and he sings you praises
all the letters are tearstained from how happy they make you to read
he’s the kind of boyfriend that likes to sit and admire what’s his
so while you lay in bed or sit on the couch, he just gazes into your eyes until you become bashful
he just thinks you’re so kind and beautiful and wants you to know it too
Hodari
he shows you how much he cares by doing things for you
he’ll rub your feet, bring you coffee or tea in bed, pick the sundrop lilies for you to put in your hair
but sometimes the little nagging voice in your head gets to you anyway
so he has Najuma help him plan a fun night of games and finger foods to eat
because spending time with your family always makes you feel better
so you spend the whole night laughing and chatting and losing at cards but it’s all okay
and at the end of the night he gives you a kiss on the forehead and he tells you how much you mean to him