3 for anton / 11 for yamato / 14 for freyr / 17 for audrey / 18 for hwan / 19 for nate
𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐚 𝐍𝐔𝐌𝐁𝐄𝐑 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫
3. in a relationship : is my muse the big spoon, little spoon, both? // Anton
If you get him to stick around, he's usually the big spoon. There's this paranoid streak in Anton, a man who has to look over his shoulder at all times, so he would rather do the protecting than trust someone else to protect him.
11. dating : what are my muses top 5 date ideas for themself and their partner/s? // Yamato
One: Home cooked dinner - Yamato is a home body, he loves cooking and also likes the privacy of his own home. A home cooked dinner trumps everything else.
Two: Theatre and a walk - he likes the theatre and he likes taking walks. For someone who struggles to find things to talk about, he would have the play/show to talk about as well, easing the pressure for him to find something interesting to say.
Three: Going out for dinner - he likes discovering new food and their conversation would pivot around the menu and the food they try.
Four: A museum or gallery - same principle as number two, they can take a walk around the place and talk about the things in the museum/gallery.
Five: Getting away for a weekend - this is something that he would do rarely, as he doesn't like being away from work that much, but he would enjoy from time to time a getaway, with an onsen involved, probably.
14. romance : what is my muses love language? // Freyr
He gives in quality time - if he makes time for you, you're important. He only spends quality time together with people he genuinely cares about (his mum, for example). He receives in words of affirmation - no surprise there, but he likes hearing how admired/loved he is and how well he is doing. Acts of service is a second close one.
17. attraction : what attracts my muse to a potential partner physically? // Audrey
It might very well be a cliche, but Audrey goes purely on vibe, not looks lol Not to say he can't appreciate beauty, but physical appearance is definitely secondary to how he feels around the other person. He's shown interest in people of all kinds before, from businessmen in suits to laidback artists. It's about the VIBE.
18. attraction : what attracts my muse to a potential partner mentally/personality-wise? // Hwan
Baby Hwan likes people who seem to have inner strength, almost. Someone who seems protective, kind, gentle - he likes people who go out of their way to help other people and who are strong enough to make him feel more confident.
19. attraction : what are my muses turn ons / turn offs? // Nate
I might get this wrong, since Nate is so new, but I know one of his turn offs is people who are full of shit - he appreciates people who are direct and truthful and cut through the bullshit and get to the heart of things. He doesn't care if you're rude - he'll take rude over fake any day. A turn on is someone who looks like they could make him be a bit submissive - so someone who is confident and strong and they know it. Courageous people who take chances and like a bit of risk or thrill drive him crazy, in a good way. There's also this softer side to him that enjoys the mundane - he likes habits and he likes intimacy. Leave your things at his place, learn what brand of cigarettes he smokes, remember what detergent he uses and he'll adore you. That's care and intimacy to him and that is a real turn on.