My neutral expression is to furrow my brows and frown a bit, sometimes I don't even realize I'm doing it. Also, no matter my emotion, when there's someone in the room I smile. Are these autism things? // As a child I would cry if water was splashed on me, even a drop, even though I loved swimming. Would this count as sensory issues? // Iiaat to not know why you're crying? I get frustrated with myself for crying bc I feel like there's no reason to // -herobrine asks
Not being aware of your expression could be an autism thing but I also think it’s just a people thing because everyone I know (autistic or not) has a neutral or “resting” face that they’re normally not aware of. Although, depending on the situation, it could also be related to mismatched facial expressions/emotions which is an autism thing (smiling when sad or frowning when happy for example)
The smiling at people in the room no matter your emotion could be an internal rule you’ve come up with for how to socialize. In which case, it would be an autism thing.
Crying if water splashes on you could be a sensory thing if you don’t like some sensory aspect of water and that’s why you cried. It could also, again, be internal rules about not liking water on you. For example, I’ve always loved water. But I have an internal rule about it not getting on my face if I’m anywhere but the shower and get upset if my face gets wet say, at the pool. Both of these reasons would be autism things.
Not knowing why you’re crying could be due to alexithymia, which many autistic people experience. So, yes it would be an autism thing.
-Mads









