#heterosex

[shadycomputerpolice]

I am anti piv s*x because it is an inherently unequal act that puts women at a disadvantage because we are at risk of pregnancy, stds (the person being penetrated has the higher risk of infection), and rape.

But the idea that women should get men's di*ks hard especially through fellatio so that the men can penetrate them is the most upside down shit ever. Men should be doing their best to make women lubricated enough for piv.

You are trying to penetrate me but I have to get you hard and make myself lubricated enough for that, that is so fucking dumb. Patriarchy is so fucking illogical if you really think about it.

For the "some women enjoy piv" response. I should hope so, if you are agreeing to that particular sexual act, I hope you are enjoying it. However, even if you enjoy piv, I still think men should be getting themselves hard and making sure women are lubricated enough for the act. The person with the most to lose should do the least. That will make the act less unequal (note there is no way to remove the inequality from piv, the only thing that can be achieved is reducing the degree of inequality).

Women's individual enjoyment of piv doesn't reduce the material inequality of piv sex. Orgasms do not eliminate the risk of pregnancy, stds and other piv related risks. As seen with the abortion bans in the USA, women are still the ones bearing the physical risk and responsibility for pregnancy prevention.

[trans-l-lawliet]

Sooo I had just end DN for the first time and I came into tumblr just to find idk some cute Pics about it but everyone’s saying that they are all gay and I’m confused lol, could yo explain this to me pls, btw I have no issue if they are or not gay haha

Let me summarise Chooch And The ImAGay Adventures for you.

Basically, a troll tried to be a smartass in my shitpost about Light being gay and having yaoi hands (link to the answer that started it all, careful, cause it’s his blog, and he has an anthro fetish). This became an inside joke into a discord server, and we posted about it, which escalated into the inside joke spreading in the fandom.

Like, we’re usually a chill fandom. We don’t care the headcanons that people have, to each their own. My stars, I don’t even hc Light as gay! But for two days, just for shit and giggles, we united under the power of three things: Light Is Gay, The Whole Death Note is Gay (as in, lgbt+), and the fandom is homosex.

Hope this clarifies all the homosex and gay for the past two days, Anon!

[uclassmatch-blog]

I love three things in this world. Sun, moon and you. Sun for morning, moon for night, and you forever.

浮世万千，吾爱有三。日，月与卿。日为朝，月为暮，卿为朝朝暮暮。

[shadycomputerpolice]

"Stop telling women to choose better men, tell men to be better."

This is a nice slogan, it might even be great for a T-Shirt BUT, this is where I ask you all, do you want a better quality of life or do you just want to complain about men? Either option is fine but let us stop pretending that we want one when we actually want the other.

Women already tell men to be better, what has that achieved? Has it resulted in any positive behavioural change? If women currently telling men to do better has not resulted in any positive change, what different outcome are you expecting?

If you truly want a better quality of life, you would understand that it is not about who is right or wrong, it is about where you (women) have more control. Women cannot control men, women can only control themselves.

Men are going to do what they want to do as long as they have the opportunity to do so. The question is, what are women going to do?

[shadycomputerpolice]

"So you don't believe any woman is in a happy heterosexual relationship?"

No, I don't believe any woman who says she is in a happy relationship.

To be fair, it is not that they are purposefully lying, it is just that their definition of good is skewed. Think "A child weaned on poison considers harm a comfort". Women and girls have been weaned on poison by romance propaganda

[shadycomputerpolice]

Physical Attraction Matters

Women only wanting to date men they are physically attracted to should not even be a debate. The pushback women get for this is vitriolic one would think they are committing human rights violations (then again, most men think getting laid is a human right so I guess to them women are indeed violating their human rights). As with all things, men have women doing their dirty work for them so even other women demonise women for this.

Most people are like" You are shallow for wanting to be sexually attracted to the person you will be sexually involved with.' While the woke/healed ones virtue be like, "His character and how he treats you are more important."

Just because character is important doesn't mean physical attraction doesn't matter. The Venn Diagram for women's dating pool would be the intersection of actual good character and physical attractive to the woman.

I also think when people hear women say "I want a man I am physically attracted to" they hear "I want a GQ Model". And some women want a GQ Model (there is nothing wrong with that btw) but physical/sexual attraction is very personal. What one woman genuinely finds attractive, another does not.

Attraction is not just based on looks as a person's personality can make them more or less attractive to an individual. Attraction is based on a several factors some of which I have attempted to list below.

Facial Beauty/ Handsomeness

Body Shape and Proportions

Personal Hygiene & Grooming

Voice (David Beckham' s voice is a huge turn off for me even though he is somewhat handsome and has a nice body)

Fashion style

Intellect (I put intellect here because it is not related to character AND I am sure many of us have experienced liking a guy until you find out he is dumb).

Hobbies

Sense of Humor

Etc (this is not an exhaustive list).

Women's standards of physical attraction will vary from individual to individual and also with time (what one person finds attractive might change over their lifetime).

However, the bottom line is women should be romantically involved with men they find physically attractive per time. Yes I meant per time. I believe it is totally reasonable and sensible to end a relationship because you are no longer physically attracted to the person. Anybody who says otherwise wants to women to tolerate sex with men they aren't attracted to (aka lie back and think of xyz) which means they hate women.

FYI: I don't have a problem with men ending relationships because the physical attraction is gone if the breakup is respectful and kind.

What I have a problem with is how they do it. They often cheat and are so disrespectful and mean to the women they are breaking up with. Relationships don't have to last forever and people should focus on having happy and healthy relationships instead of long ones.

[shadycomputerpolice]

When the inevitable quarterly seperatist discourse happens and anti-seperatist radfems are like "But I need sex"

Firstly, I thought it was understood in feminism 101 that partnered sex is not a need nor is it required for an orgasm but okay.

Secondly, even though I don't recommend it for obvious reasons you can have sex with men and go about your day (bust a nut and keep it moving). You don't need to "pair bond" with men and build a life with them to have sex with them. Men are not hard to get.