Jan 30, 2016
Hmong tradition #1
Family and bloodline builds a foundation for us and is our home. If that bond breaks and that bloodline is dead, no longer active, not recognizing the good in their own people... What is the point? I hate the fact that we're supposed to care about "our clan" yet when we marry our daughter off, we disown her although her in-laws are not traditional. I will not be crying on my wedding day because Lord knows I will always be my parents baby girl. Idc if I'm a different clan or kind, I will always still help my 1st family. But yes if that family does not acknowledge and welcome me, I will distance. Vice versa with treating a male in your clan that way.... When you treat them that way, they will obviously distance.