#isfjs

[entpstruggles]

What would it look like if an ISFJ didn't like an ENTP, i mean if they just didn't get along? On a different note, if it was the opposite, any headcanons?

I’m not an expert on other types so this is gonna be based on my two ISFJ friends and how I’ve seen them behave. 

ISFJs are very pacific and nice people. They won’t insult you or refuse to talk to you (they won’t look for it either or be too engaged in a conversation), they’ll just don’t care about you and maybe observe you and talk behind your back with their closest friends. I think ENTPs come out as too selfish, relativist and brutally honest for ISFJs. They don’t agree with our “ethic” (how we usually put ourselves first or our attitude of “the end justifies the means”), and the way we seem not to see any bad in it. Also, as very conciliatory and sensitive people, they think we’re often too harsh. I don’t think an ISFJ would hate an ENTP unless they’ve done something terrible to them (they don’t hate too many people) but those misunderstandings could make it impossible for them to trust us, so they would not get very close to us.

However, ISFJs value loyalty and often admire that sense of honesty and spirit that we have, even if they don’t agree with some of our traits. They see further and they appreciate our good things. If you have an ISFJ friend, you know they’ll never fail you. If they like you they care a lot, asking you questions about your life and how you’re doing, trying to make sure that they’re doing all that’s in their hands to make your life better. I think they see us as crazy beings that attract their curiosity and surprise them, they find us funny. 

I have two ISFJ friends and I love them so much, both are very caring and warm. They share some characteristics but they’re different. One of them is very observant, a little bit stalker. He knows absolutely everything about everyone (sometimes I don’t even know when my projects are due and he does), but he’s so nice and he truly cares about me. However he struggles to have long and deep conversations and is too dependent and sensitive. My other friend is also very trustworthy, she’s always there if you need her and sometimes she puts other people’s problems before hers more than she should. She’s more like me, lazy and with similar interests and much deeper than my other ISFJ friend. I get along very well with both of them.

[bkwrm523]

Guyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyssssssssssss I think I finally figured out my type!!!

[hopesandcoats]

Top 5 Myths About ISFJs

ISFJs are painted as compassionate, loyal and dutiful, often to the point of being a pushover. Famous ISFJs include Mother Teresa, Queen Eli

Very intriguing! 😁 -❤️

[hopesandcoats]

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[issi-eds]

goodnight everyone hope i wake up as an isfj ✌️💕

[issi-eds]

never met an isfj that wasn’t extremely freakin’ cute 💕

[infjedi]

Good day. I'm having some trouble figuring out the specifics of my type. Si and Fe are my certain Dom/Aux functions but the ordering is something I'm struggling with. I've read up on ESFJs and ISFJs quite a bit but I still don't know which one I am. Could you direct me to any links, possibly going into the shadow functions or more into inferior/tert functions, so I can have a bit more material to work with? Better yet, do you have any advice? Thank you for reading!

I hope this helps! 

When first meeting someone, it is not difficult for the ESFJ to get to know the person better. ISFJs make friends easily as well, but may be more standoffish or quiet at first. 

ESFJs are more likely to host a big get-together whereas ISFJs are more likely to cater to others’ needs at an event. ESFJs like to control how things will benefit everyone where ISFJs will help others working with what it is already going on. ISFJs certainly host as well, but they are more likely to only invite a select few close friends where ESFJs will invite a lot of friends, even some that are not necessarily in their inner circle. 

When a conflict arises, ESFJs are more likely state their stance on the matter where an ISFJ is usually more passive aggressive or keep their anger or hurt feelings to themselves. Although ESFJs are more likely to let the other party know what is going on, neither type enjoys conflict. 

ISFJs are more likely out of the two to ignore their own personal needs to better suit the interests of others. They are also more likely out of the two to have their kindness taken advantage of. 

Under stress, an ISFJ’s inferior Ne may see all new possibilities in a negative, often exaggerated light. This can give them a lot of anxiety. They can become scattered. This may be why they are usually described as not being as open to change. Read more on ISFJ’s inferior function here.

An ESFJ under stress may be uncharacteristically withdrawn and pensive. They will get stuck inside their head, usually thinking up negative thoughts of others or oneself. Read more on ESFJ’s inferior function here.

[infjedi]

How do I tell if I'm an INFJ or an ISFJ? Ni and Si descriptions seem kinda hazy- I both am a daydreamy and disconnected type but also have an excellent memory. I know stereotypes don't apply, but I seem largely INFJ except for the fact that I can be very pragmatic and analytical. I enjoy work such as chores and helping people, but no way am I the doting, motherly type. I tend to offer more solid advice than cuddling or something. Sorry for my all over the place thoughts.

Here’s an article I’ve shared that attempts to distinguish the two. Hope this helps!