#it's 11.11

[gingers-emotes]

Don't say when, say "if".

Instead of telling a little girl "When get a boyfriend when you're older", tell her, "If you get a boyfriend when you're older."

Don't tell a boy "When you want to date later in life", tell him, "If you want to date later in life."

Instead of telling a teen "When you start experimenting with things in college", them, "If you start experimenting with things in college."

Don't tell your preteen "When you start having sex as an adult", tell them, "If you start having sex as an adult."

Edit :: Don't tell a teenager "When you have kids..." tell them "If you have kids". :: Edit end

Don't tell them when. Don't pressure them to go on a predefined path.

Tell them 'if'.

reblog to share this around . please .

it is violently unanimous that people think :when you have kids: should be on here too so that's where the edit comes from

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