#jaemin asks

[jenomark]

who in dream do you think is most likely to be a fboy and really get around versus you would be the most likely to really not be into that kind of thing and prefer a committed relationship? your takes on the boys are so interesting!

Realistically, I don't think any of them are like that!

I think Haechan would be someone who goes through love quite quickly. I can see him dating a lot to figure out what he likes/what he wants. He knows what he likes when it comes to food and music, but there is something about him that makes me feel like he has no idea what he wants when it comes to a significant other. I also think he has a tendency of getting bored.

Jaemin feels like someone who would rather be in a committed relationship. I almost feel like he would rather be alone than date around a whole lot.

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Uhhh so since it’s jaeminies birthday if y’all wanna y’know drop a request or just a Jaemin related ask in the box 👉🏽👈🏽

[jenomark]

what type of s/o would you like to see with jeno and for jaemin too?

Jeno: Someone active/enjoys doing active things with him. Someone who brings him out of his shell a little bit more. A leader type. Someone not too high maintenance. Kindness is always, always a must. For him, I would like to see him with someone intelligent and/or cultured. Someone affectionate.

Jaemin: I always imagine him with someone a little more quiet. Someone that balances out his crazy. Someone with good manners. Someone funny, like, he needs someone who makes him laugh from his gut.  A person that lives to bring others up rather than tear them down. Someone who lifts his mood and makes him feel like he can achieve anything.

[jenomark]

I noticed how in every nct 2020 content jaemin was the most quiet and calm (next to sungchan and shotaro, they were kinda shy because they were getting to know everyone) and it’s crazy because I wouldn’t put him as the most introvert member. What I think is that he enjoys more chill environments but this 22 boys so loud and active the whole time, he probably felt overwhelmed, no uncomfortable, just like being calm.

what do you think about it? I just wanted to share lol

btw i’m not saying this is good or bad, just trying to analize jaemin’s personality?? lol

I think he expends energy when he wants to expend energy. To me, Jaemin has always felt like someone who can entertain himself. He enjoys being alone, enjoys doing what he wants to do, and he cannot be swayed by pressure from other people.

He seems like a really simple man. He has his interests that keep his attention. He's genuine with the people around him. He likes to act goofy, just like any other twenty-something around their friends.

I don't know. I never notice him when he's in a group of people that large, just because they all have louder personalities. He tends to sit back and observe rather than to partake. 💚

[jenomark]

Who isn't good dealing with strangers ?

Or will not feel comfortable if a third party that he doesn't know entered the chat ?

Jisung. That's no secret. He's always at the top of these lists because he's admittedly timid with people he's just met. He wonders whether he should speak. He waits for the perfect time to insert something witty and often fails at timing. I will give props to Jisung, though. He's really good at being comfortable whenever he's in front of his fans, who are also strangers to him.

For me, Jeno feels the opposite of Jisung. Though shy, I think Jeno can handle himself away from work. He's friendly when he has to interact with strangers. He sort of becomes the human embodiment of a customer service voice. He may want to shrink into himself, but he doesn't. Whereas, when he's at work and talking to fans, I think he has to act comfortable.

Jaemin feels closed off. Shotaro appears shy but I don't know about him yet. He feels like he would just stay quiet the entire time, like he's waiting to see if the people are worth his time. WinWin gives me vibes like he would fall quiet the minute he wasn't comfortable, but I also think he's used to others steering the conversation for him.

[jenomark]

Who has a very high standard in relationships? 💚

Jaemin. He's not entering a relationship unless he feels it checks all of the boxes. He's very realistic, but I do think he clings to the idea that everyone has to be just like him. He strokes his own ego a bit. He believes he has it all figured out, so the people he pursues should be the same.

In a way, Kun does. I think he's more lenient in what he expects. I don't think he asks for much, honestly, but I think his standards cause him to ignore a lot. When something is wrong, he doesn't want to hear it out. His pride makes him keep those standards high, even if he's behaving in a different way.

[jenomark]

Hello💗 I wanted to ask for a how would jaehyun and jaemin act towards their s/o when they are horny?

Jaehyun: He has to be really horny for him to act out. Jaehyun being moderately horny means him kind of ignoring it? I think he treats sex like a chore sometimes, especially when his mind is preoccupied with other things. Like, I can see him masturbating out of thoughtless boredom. However, when he's at his fullest horniness, he's a little bit like a lovesick boy. He needs you. He wants you to know he needs you and wants you. He wants you to want him back, to feel like you can't live with each other. He wants to cuddle, to make love. He, quite literally, wants every last bit of you.

Jaemin: It depends on which person is horny first. If you're more horny than he is, he would be all about charming you to drive you crazier. He'd reach over and put your seatbelt on for you, casually grazing you with his fingertips. He would definitely misbehave whenever he could, just to drive up the point that he's the one who makes you feel that way. If he's more horny, I think he would be more subtle in his advances. I don't think he would ever outright state that he's feeling that way, especially in public. He's not rushing to get home either. He's taking his sweet time and really drawing out the feeling of someone wanting him.

[jenomark]

Who loves himself the most ? In a good way . And who needs to ?

While I do think everyone goes through periods where they might love themselves a little less, I think Kun is really comfortable with himself. I get the vibe that he feels happy with who he's grown up to be. Johnny feels like his self-love has been something hard but necessary to achieve. Jaemin feels like someone accepting of his own flaws, which is a type of self-love, in my opinion, and Taeil gives me a laid back feeling, like, of course he loves himself. To name a few more members: Yuta, WinWin & YangYang.

I think every member can stand to love themselves just a little bit more, even the ones I named above. As always, Jisung is at the top of the list. He's still young and learning to not worry too much about his weaknesses. Renjun lacks a lot of confidence, but I don't think it necessarily translates into the love he has for himself. I still get the feeling like it's something he struggles with, though. Lucas, because I think he's harsh on himself sometimes. Hendery, too.

Honestly, none of them fall into strictly one category. There are a lot of gray areas in this question. It's easy to love yourself one day and not be so satisfied with yourself the next. Then, you also have to deal with the fact that loving yourself looks completely different for everyone.