nothing hotter than a man who knows himself. nothing hotter than a man who has a personalized sense of style and grooming routine. nothing hotter than a man really secure in his masculinity and who goes out of his way to be a better ally to non men. Who is kind and generous. a man who is emotionally mature and articulate. states boundaries. knows how to talk consent and limits. knows what he wants and how to get it. knows how he likes to be loved and what he wants out of life. someone who really loves their friends and has a strong social network. someone who stops to smells the roses. who indulges in treats and care and radical self love. a man who has (and continues to do) the hard work!!!!!!!!











