I can't believe that Marrish is one of the most hated ship in this fandom. I just can't believe it. Y'all (stydiots) have just the same complaints about it, that obviously don't make sense whatsoever. You always say : Marrish is gross. Parrish is a pedo, Lydia is in high school, like you guys watch another show. Right, yes you did, the Stydia shitfest, I forgot. Marrish could have been such a breath of fresh hair in TV m/fa romance representation, because it's basically unique. We have a banshee that discovers a connection with an hellhound. That why Jordan dreams about her. Those dreams aren't creepy, they show the connection between banshee and hellhound. They're unnecessarily hypersexualized, but that's what the writers chose. Lydia and Jordan had a beautiful and healthy friendship that was turning into something deeper, before the whole st*dia mess they had to show. I mean, Parrish is older than Lydia, but she's been legal since the end of season 4, so that's not pedophilia in any way. Was Lydia getting hurt by Jordan, or viceversa? No. Was he showing his supposed position of power over her, giving that he's a deputy and she used to be still in high school during the first phase of their relationship? NO. Never. He always found a way to protect her, he respects her, he obviously likes her but he did NOTHING to harm her in any way. Jordan Parrish is a good character, is a good friend to the pack and the best choice for Lydia IMHO. But you guys always focus on Jordan's situation on this ship, and NEVER on Lydia's feelings. Lydia wants to help Jordan. Lydia wants Jordan to be her friend, Lydia seeks Jordan for help, Lydia cares about Jordan, Lydia teased Jordan multiple times, Lydia started to have feelings for Jordan in 5x10. It's the writers fault that they had to delete and destroy every evidence of a Marrish connection just to prop up Stydia. Marrish isn't gross. Lydia is a character that knows what she wants and what she feels about people, and she obviously liked Jordan and she showed it multiple times. Jordan is a good guy and completes Lydia's being bossy somehow. He's not creepy at all. Marrish could have been unique and really mature, instead they focused on a cliché. It makes me so angry.