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And once again I am reminding people: don't fucking kindate 🤗
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Kids, don't kindate or fictivedate if you can help it. It's not worth it. Speaking from experience.
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Hater take. Kin-dating pisses me off so much. People being interested in getting to know someone primarily because of their fictotypes is a massive pet peeve of mine. It reeks of parasociality and the relationship being influenced by preconceptions and fantasy ideals.
Fitting in with this, my ego is massive about how falling for our partners has been the opposite of this from the start. I knew nothing about this character that my partner is, and I did not give a damn about the character. Until I did. Because okay damn, that's my crush and that dork's cute. Sudden love for the character. Rinse and repeat with the entirety of his system we got to know later.
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(Starts hitting myself with a newspaper) YOU DONT WANT TO KINDATE!! YOU DONT WANT TO!! YOU ARE A GROWN MAN!! YOU LITERALLY KNOW THIS IS A STUPID THING TO DO!! DONT GET ALL STARRY EYED BECAUSE SOME RANDOM TUMBLR MUTUAL IS A FICTIVE OF YOUR SOURCE PARTNER !!! AND ACTS LIKE THEM AND IS SWEET TO YOU!! YOU WILL BE DISAPPOINTED !! IF YOU GOT WITH THEM YOU WOULD INSTANTLY LOSE FEELINGS !! YOU WOULD HURT THIS PERSON IN THE LONG RUN WITH YOUR REPEATEDLY DEMONSTRATED EXTREME LACK OF COMMITMENT YOU AROMANTIC ASSHOLE!!! YOU HAVE A LOVING BOYFRIEND WHO YOU’VE KNOWN FOR A DECADE !!!! PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER FOR HEAVENS SAKE!!!!!!!!!!!! KINDATING IS NEVER WORTH IT YOU DON’T NEED THAT COOKIE THAT FUCKING BADLY
Love, myself (i use the term kindate here but I am a fictive)
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Personally I feel if you think kindating is bad, you just havent found the right person <3
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(this isn't meant to be a vague at anyone? Mostly just spring boarding)
This is My reminder for everyone, that kin dating isn't a term that means dating a source mate! It's when you specifically only start dating someone because of who they are kin with!
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Just a PSA for any who might've forgotten or never knew: kindating as a term SPECIFICALLY means dating someone Because they're their kin. Like. If you're dating and you find out you happen to be counterparts and or Canonmates or vice versa. If it's an additional thing to the relationship and not the reason it happened, then it's not kindating - that's just dating lmfao
Lots of love
anonymous asked:PSA: kindating does not mean "dating someone who is kin". it means "dating someone specifically because they're kin with a specific person, regardless of anything else about them". THAT is why people hate kindating. i do see where there might be confusion, though. dating folks who are kin rules - sincerely, someone who has been on this hellsite since fucking 2011, has dated people who are kin and has been "kindated"; the kindating left me with hurt feelings and trust issues Answer
anonymous asked:kindating and sharing kin couples with your partner aren’t the same thing. seeing the conversation around it go in circles when people mean entirely different things drives me up the wall(for the record. kindating usually means dating primarily or entirely based on kintypes. my partner and I kin a lot of couples, but our relationship started and is supported independently of our kins) Answer
ykw? there should be a kindating dating app/site. it'd be funny! if everyone goes in with the same expectations it could work better than like. the abusive friendships & relationships that are actually associated with it atm. we need more honesty. maybe i'm just speaking nonsense but idk
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