#kink 101

[chronically-loquacious]

What Do You Want?

In an attempt to figure out what I want from hypnosis and kink, I created a list of questions. Maybe they can help you too~

- what did I enjoy the most during x session/interaction?

- what did I enjoy the least during x session/interaction?

- what reoccurring fantasies do I have?

- what would I like to try?

- what am I curious about?

- what do I need to feel satisfied/fulfilled?

- what are my kinks? how have I explored them? what are new ways to explore them?

- what themes am I drawn to in porn/erotica?

- what turns me on? what turns me off?

- what am I neutral about?

- what flusters me (words, actions, tone, expressions, etc)?

- what do I envy about others?

- what makes me happy or energized?

- what makes me sad or drained?

[starlitdomme]

To all the subs with "no limits" please consider

Why would any responsible adult want to play with you? You're basically saying "I don't care about safety, don't respect my health or yours, and have no concept of boundaries"

I'm not talking about thoroughly negotiated "no limit" fantasies. I'm talking about subs that day this during pre talks.

Doms aren't mind readers, even if it might seem like they are at times.

You might think "yeah I want that evil dom that's gonna use me however they want" but without pre talks that's just abuse.

[temixart]

someone asked for another D/s fashion doodle, so have this one

also my bad i was stoned when I drew this, please do not grab from the top strings unless your goal is to crush their ribs and possibly damage the corset, grab from the center strings, the waist is where a corset is reinforced and strongest. nevermind i fixed it now

(Also, I made the corset I was grabbing, but if it’s not yours, please ask before doing that, corsets are super expensive, and some are fragile and shouldn’t be jerked around)

[socam]

Wolf Alice - Don’t Delete The Kisses (Live)

[hedwighidweg-blog]

Bet them be like

V= hey Jimin you should wear a bandana too man Ladies just love ‘em Jimin= oh do they? * smug face*

Both wears a bandana

ARMY’s= akfhhahakaiaywyqodoaQhuwishwgskekdjhdhsJAJWJWHWGAKWKKWcrap

[festival-of-pudding]

for everyone still quivering from the sight of Eddie zip tying that dude, please allow aunt pudding to inform you that while zip ties are discouraged in kink b/c they can cause injury, nylon rope can be made into handcuffs in about 10 seconds using a pre-tied double prusik knot that Eddie would almost certainly have learned in the military :)