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#KontemplasiHati untuk parents dan parents to be. https://www.instagram.com/p/Cab7C3GvnZy/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Know your worth, Dear 😉 Akhirnya kembali ber- #KontemplasiHati (at Malang) https://www.instagram.com/p/CZFNT8iPJTD/?utm_medium=tumblr

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I wished I had my own cat. Then a day after, came this miserable kitten. It was November 21. Someone might threw her away the night before. She looked like a koala with her dark-coloured nose, spontaneously I called her Qoalla Qummall (read: koala kumal), the miserable koala. When we went to vets clinic, they said it is a mixed-Himalayan cat full of disease in her whole body so I need to treat her much more carefully. They warned me I might have some allergy too. I'd rather pet the local kind, but it didn't matter now since she's so sick and need somebody to care for her, I thought. Besides, I've fallen for her since I knew her wandering around crying like a baby in around my boarding house. . Never had a kitten before. All cats I pet are an adult ones and I pet them with other friends. So I needed some adjustment and a lot to learn. It's been a week, only a week, she's living with me. By the time stormy days in this city was over, it was also the end of my story being with her. November 30. I cried burying her because I felt I was still a bad caretaker and cried even harder after, for I regret being a bit mad at her in her almost last hours, just because toilet training her was so difficult and I got more and more itchy recently. . I failed, let's say, but I should realise, God has taught me many things through her. Patience in raising a little one, being responsible for other's living cost not just mine, loving through actions not just words, caring whole-heartedly, controlling my anger, sacrificing myself for somebody else, and again... letting go, the hardest part as always. . 😿 Qoalla, thanks for teaching me how to be caring and loving mom. See you in here after, I've missed you already. If you see Apong there, send my love to him too. #kontemplasihati #DR20171130

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Setidaknya, ucapkan terima kasih. It's the simplest but best gift in return for anything you get from anyone. Pada pelayan restoran yg membereskan mejamu, tukang parkir yang jagain mobilmu, ibu yang memasakkan makanan kesukaanmu, ayah yang mengantar kemanapun pergimu, dosen/guru yang menularkan ilmunya padamu, teman yang mengediakan waktu untuk sekedar bersamamu, suami/istri yang mengiyakan inginmu, kakak yang mendengarkan cerita sehari-harimu, adik yang mendengarkan nasihatmu, abang/embak ojek yang mengantarmu atau makananmu, tukang pos yang mengirimkan paketmu, dan pada SIAPAPUN itu yang telah BERBUAT SESUATU UNTUKMU, lisankanlah rasa terima kasihmu. Tahukah? Bahkan sodoran hadiah, uang, tiket liburan, atau apapun takkan bernilai tanpa hadirnya ucapan sederhana ini. . . . #kontemplasihati #simplemanners #DR20171017

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It's okay to step away from people who don't deserve you anyway. It's fine to be alone rather than being with people who give you too much wound. It's alright to wait for someone right who'll be always your friend when you're happy or sad, good or bad, wrong or right, through day and night. But first, just be that one for everyone 😊. #kontemplasihati #DR20170914

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To avoid any regret in the future, say sorry. To maintain a good friendship, say sorry. To be a good child for parents, say sorry. To have a healthy relationship, say sorry. To keep your heart sane, say sorry. Overall... To yourself, say sorry, for being such a coward who couldn't say sorry first. . . . I'm terribly sorry, Everyone, for every single mistake I did to you. Would you please kindly forgive me?? . #simplemanners #kontemplasihati #DR20171010

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TENTANG BERTUMBUH Jaman sekarang, kadang yang menyimpang justru nampak lebih 'tinggi' segala-galanya di mata kita. Lebih wow sebab label 'anti-mainstream' disandangnya. Padahal bila kita 'lihat' dari sudut, jarak, & waktu tertentu, penyimpangan itu tak membuat segalanya indah dalam harmoni. Bertumbuhlah sebagaimana mestinya. Terkadang kita tak perlu menjadi sangat berbeda alias nyleneh agar diakui & terlihat 'lebih' dari yang lainnya. Bertumbuh saja apa adanya, biar orang lain yang menemukan sendiri 'pembeda' dalam diri kita. #kontemplasihati #DR20171010

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Semoga kita termasuk dalam 7 golongan yang tersebut dalam ayat-ayat di atas, serta terhindar dari sifat, ucapan, & tindakan mengeluh. I am not being saint, by the way. Just feel free to remind me when I start to complain things. 😊 Saling mengingatkan saja lah ya. #kontemplasihati #kontemplasi